01. Introduction

In life, everyone will encounter All kinds of people walk with it and keep warm with it.

However, in the communication between people, there are closeness and estrangement.

Everyone has his own personality and the right to make choices about his life. Some people choose to be your friend for the rest of their lives; some people choose to take advantage of you, meet you in a hurry, and become a passerby.

Get along with people, when it’s time to say no, don’t be overly flattering. Don’t ignore your dignity and feelings in order to maintain a relationship.

Blindly pleasing and blindly showing one’s own weakness is actually connivance to others.

Yu Hua said: “When we treat the world fiercely, the world suddenly becomes gentle.”

< p data-track="13">On the road of life, when it’s time to turn your face, you don’t have to show mercy, and protecting yourself is the correct way. In middle age, when you meet these types of people, those who know how to turn their faces are very far-sighted.

02. People who make progress in order to avoid being repeatedly bullied

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In this world, for a person who pushes forward, if you pay seven cents to him, he will pay ten cents. He is used to constantly asking for it.
A person who is aggressive does not know how to be grateful. When getting along with others, he is used to calculating others and encroaching on the interests of others.
In “Please advise me for the rest of my life”, Gu Wei has a bad relationship with a colleague. When the other party looks at him, he often has a face of contempt.
Besides, he often said some sarcastic words, and he didn’t care about his proportions when getting along, but Gu Wei didn’t want to be as knowledgeable as him.
However, at a party, he deliberately made fun of Gao Xi and Gu Wei, and ran away from Lin Zhixiao who was present. Gu Wei turned his face on the spot, and immediately stated that the person he likes is Lin Zhixiao, and he is not allowed to bully his girlfriend anymore.
After finishing speaking, chase him out, let everyone know what he is. From then on, that colleague didn’t bother Gu Wei any more, instead he respected him more.
If you don’t know how to refuse and express your bottom line when facing a person who is aggressive, you will always be “bullied” by him.
Cai Kangyong said: “I advise you to be a cold person and learn to be cold, so that you can be warm.”
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When you meet someone who pushes forward and keeps his demeanor blindly, he will think that you don’t care about his advances. will further harm you with impunity.
Seriously inform the other party of your principles and bottom line, and once you turn your face, he will know that his behavior has caused great harm to you, so he knows how to restrain himself.
03. People who count on you for small profits, so as not to be used
Although the essence is “interest exchange” between people, feelings cannot withstand calculations.

The principle of “interest exchange” is based on the fact that each other is willing to exchange their own interests and pay.
If you encounter someone who is calculating and encroaching on your interests without your consent, it is the best policy to choose to turn your face and stay away as soon as possible.
In this world, there are always some people who are very rich in the city, who seem to be kind to you in every possible way, but in fact they throw out “bait” to give you some small favors, from you for the greater good.
When you meet a calculating person, don’t be embarrassed to turn against the other person and let yourself suffer all kinds of grievances.
If you act nonchalantly, it will only make the other party think you are “stupid”. In his heart, interests are far more important than yours.
If you always don’t care, you won’t be able to get rid of the opponent’s use, and you will be counted by the opponent again and again. People who love to calculate are insatiable.
It is not easy for everyone to make money. If you meet someone who plots against you for small profits, please turn your back on them and leave unfeelingly, that is the right choice.
Because, in the future, he may further harm you and use you in front of greater interests.
04. Rely on people who are too psychologically heavy to avoid endless trouble

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In life, if you meet someone who is very dependent on you, please be vigilant.

You helped him once, and when he encounters difficulties in the future, he will ask you for help every time. Whether it’s convenient for you or not, put his business first.

Constantly disrupting the rhythm of your life and affecting your normal work. He even felt from the bottom of his heart that trying to help him was a matter of course.

He believes that with the relationship and relationship between you and him, you should make selfless dedication and continue to pay for him.

It will be very tiring to get along with people who are too dependent and feel a lot of pressure. If you don’t know how to refuse, you will only let yourself be consumed by it, dragged down by it, and there will be endless troubles.

Actually, if you don’t refuse someone who is too dependent, it will be detrimental to his growth and improvement. Be sure to turn your face as soon as possible to put an end to his idea of getting something for nothing.

It is good for both of you to turn your face decisively. Only when you let him understand that you can’t be his backer, will he work harder to grow and learn to be independent.

05, Message from Wen Qiusheng

On the road of life, when choosing friends for yourself, you need to be rational.

If you are with one person and can support and help each other, you should cherish the fate between each other. If getting along is uncomfortable, it is much better to learn to refuse, or even turn your face, than to compromise.

For those people with bad character, let them see your principles and bottom line clearly, and let them know that although you are kind, you also have sharp edges. Only in this way, they will not trouble you again and again.

Everyone has their own way to go. Take care of yourself and learn to choose friends, so that you can be with warm people and have a comfortable life.

About the author: Wen Qiusheng lives on words. The autumn wind boils the rain, a glass of sake, two or three stories, and I will be with you on the lonely road.