Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
In life, everyone will encounter All kinds of people walk with it and keep warm with it.
However, in the communication between people, there are closeness and estrangement.
Everyone has his own personality and the right to make choices about his life. Some people choose to be your friend for the rest of their lives; some people choose to take advantage of you, meet you in a hurry, and become a passerby.
Get along with people, when it’s time to say no, don’t be overly flattering. Don’t ignore your dignity and feelings in order to maintain a relationship.
Blindly pleasing and blindly showing one’s own weakness is actually connivance to others.
Yu Hua said: “When we treat the world fiercely, the world suddenly becomes gentle.”
< p data-track="13">On the road of life, when it’s time to turn your face, you don’t have to show mercy, and protecting yourself is the correct way. In middle age, when you meet these types of people, those who know how to turn their faces are very far-sighted.
02. People who make progress in order to avoid being repeatedly bullied
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In this world, for a person who pushes forward, if you pay seven cents to him, he will pay ten cents. He is used to constantly asking for it.
A person who is aggressive does not know how to be grateful. When getting along with others, he is used to calculating others and encroaching on the interests of others.
In “Please advise me for the rest of my life”, Gu Wei has a bad relationship with a colleague. When the other party looks at him, he often has a face of contempt.
Besides, he often said some sarcastic words, and he didn’t care about his proportions when getting along, but Gu Wei didn’t want to be as knowledgeable as him.
However, at a party, he deliberately made fun of Gao Xi and Gu Wei, and ran away from Lin Zhixiao who was present. Gu Wei turned his face on the spot, and immediately stated that the person he likes is Lin Zhixiao, and he is not allowed to bully his girlfriend anymore.
After finishing speaking, chase him out, let everyone know what he is. From then on, that colleague didn’t bother Gu Wei any more, instead he respected him more.
If you don’t know how to refuse and express your bottom line when facing a person who is aggressive, you will always be “bullied” by him.
Cai Kangyong said: “I advise you to be a cold person and learn to be cold, so that you can be warm.”
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When you meet someone who pushes forward and keeps his demeanor blindly, he will think that you don’t care about his advances. will further harm you with impunity.
Seriously inform the other party of your principles and bottom line, and once you turn your face, he will know that his behavior has caused great harm to you, so he knows how to restrain himself.
03. People who count on you for small profits, so as not to be used h1>
Although the essence is “interest exchange” between people, feelings cannot withstand calculations.
The principle of “interest exchange” is based on the fact that each other is willing to exchange their own interests and pay.
If you encounter someone who is calculating and encroaching on your interests without your consent, it is the best policy to choose to turn your face and stay away as soon as possible.
In this world, there are always some people who are very rich in the city, who seem to be kind to you in every possible way, but in fact they throw out “bait” to give you some small favors, from you for the greater good.
When you meet a calculating person, don’t be embarrassed to turn against the other person and let yourself suffer all kinds of grievances.
If you act nonchalantly, it will only make the other party think you are “stupid”. In his heart, interests are far more important than yours.
If you always don’t care, you won’t be able to get rid of the opponent’s use, and you will be counted by the opponent again and again. People who love to calculate are insatiable.
It is not easy for everyone to make money. If you meet someone who plots against you for small profits, please turn your back on them and leave unfeelingly, that is the right choice.
Because, in the future, he may further harm you and use you in front of greater interests.
04. Rely on people who are too psychologically heavy to avoid endless trouble