Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Time is like an arrow, in the blink of an eye, half a life has passed.
The first half of life was stumbling and full of pressure. In order to let his family live a more decent life, he ran for half his life in wind and rain.
In a blink of an eye, you are no longer young. Looking at myself in the mirror, I realized that my skin has gradually become wrinkled, and my youth is no longer there.
In this world, the most unbearable thing to consume is time.
Yue Fei once said: “Don’t wait for nothing, the boy’s head is white, and he is sad.”
I used to think that everything would last forever. Later I realized that time is short, and in a blink of an eye, I am not young anymore. The future is long, and it has become a regret in my heart, which is no longer possible.
To live, the most important thing is to grasp the present moment, learn to reconcile with yourself, and learn to love yourself. Instead of chasing fame and fortune, go chasing the future.
People who really live in the present know how to love themselves, cherish the people and things they already have, and live an exceptionally beautiful life.
02. Love yourself is a kind of ability
Why do you say that loving yourself is a kind of ability?
Interpersonal communication, many people, because of the lack of internal motivation, cannot get appreciation and recognition from themselves, and they are humble in their bones.
So, I often feel that I am not good enough. When getting along with others, please others too much in order to gain their approval.
A person who pleases others too much, he will put himself in an inferior position, flatter, and eventually lead to self-neglect.
Even, in the face of excessive demands made by others, knowing that I can’t do it, or don’t like it, but I don’t know how to refuse. Because, if you are afraid of rejecting others, you will greatly reduce your image.
In fact, getting along with people and pleasing others everywhere is impossible to establish a good interpersonal relationship.
Halifax said: “Self-love is far from a shortcoming, and this definition is appropriate. A person who knows how to love himself properly must Be able to do everything else properly.”
Love yourself is a kind of ability and a kind of self-enrichment.
People who really know how to love themselves are good at listening to their inner thoughts. In life, care about your inner self, know how to refuse, and know how to strengthen yourself.
If you know how to love yourself, life will be meaningful and enjoyable.
03. Those who know how to love themselves are more popular
< p data-track="28">In life, those who truly know how to love themselves will have good popularity.
Interpersonal communication comes from attraction. If a person does not love himself, then he cannot live a different self.
In life, if he pleases others everywhere and gives up on himself everywhere, then he will be bullied by others in the end and will not be respected by others.
A person who has no self, loves himself, and has no principles will not be treated well by others.
Toh Fuller said: “Only by knowing self-love can you get the friendship of others.”
A person who knows how to love himself has dreams, goals, and self in his life. Time to push yourself to grow.
The more people who have no requirements for themselves, let themselves lie in the comfort zone, which seems to be an expression of loving themselves, but in fact it is a way of hurting themselves Way.
The way to truly love yourself, know how to manage yourself, and make yourself stronger. And, in life, you can live according to your own thoughts.
After all, the wind and rain in the future must be faced by oneself. Moreover, when you become excellent, your popularity will also be better.
No matter what life is like, those who know how to love themselves can make themselves live differently and shine like light. Let others appreciate and be more willing to make friends with them.
04, Message from Wen Qiusheng
In this world, how a person treats himself will determine what kind of life he will live.
People who don’t love themselves will always hurt themselves easily. Live unhappy, depressed, without any expectations for the future.
I often do things that hurt myself, and I don’t know how to pity and love myself.
Life is alive, everyone is a “limited edition”, everyone is very precious.
And Landeis said: “I only have one life, and it is quite short. How about wasting my life on the Internet?”
The truly happy and blessed people are those who know how to love themselves.
People who really know how to love themselves know how to pay attention to their own health and body; Know how to adjust emotions; people who truly love themselves will not blindly wrong themselves in order to please others, but will take into account their inner feelings…
Understand People who love themselves will protect and treat themselves with heart in a long life.
When you are tired, you will let yourself take a good rest. When you cry, try to please yourself and make yourself happy.
Learn to love yourself, life will get better and better, and blessings will gradually condense and become deeper and deeper. Life is short, never forget to love yourself.
When you learn to love yourself, your life will have a different color, and your life will shine brightly. Love yourself, your blessing will come quietly.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng lives on words. The autumn wind boils the rain, a glass of sake, two or three stories, and I will be with you on the lonely road.