Author: Wen Qiusheng
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On the road of life, aging is a People have no choice but to accept things.
Zong Baihua said: “Only when people are middle-aged can they realize the meaning, responsibility and problems of life, and reflect on the truth of life, so the sense of sorrow and joy To be deep.”
In people’s mindset, men must be indomitable and omnipotent. However, under the strong appearance of men, There is also a fragile heart.
When a man reaches the age of fifty, he suddenly finds that many things are beyond his control.
The gap and the fear of the future, I have to disguise myself with hypocritical strength. And it often makes the tired and fragile heart unable to find peace when it is alone.
No matter how powerful a person is, in the face of reality, there are things beyond his power. Men’s psychological fragility is especially obvious after the age of fifty.
Men, after the age of fifty, most of them have “three fears”.
02. Physical strength is declining, I am afraid that I cannot bear the burden of a family
Responsibility is a mountain in a man’s heart.
When he was young, a man went through the wind and rain for his family. They are not afraid of suffering, and they are not afraid of many trials in life. They are only afraid that they will not work hard enough to give their families a better life.
For the first half of his life, a man was constantly running around in order to carry the burden of a family.
However, after the age of fifty, a man’s physical strength declines and he cannot support high-intensity work, which means that his income will be reduced.
Once there is a crisis at work, there will be a crisis in family life that follows.
If a man cannot provide a stable and high-quality life for his family, he will label himself a “loser”.
A man, after the age of fifty, still wants to be the pillar of the family, still wants to protect his family, still wants to work hard to carry the burden of a family.
However, he is really afraid that he will fall down one day, afraid that he will not be able to carry the burden of a family. In the face of reality and pressure, I can’t find a way to break through the status quo, and often cry and mourn silently in silence.
03. Physical function is declining, and I am afraid that I will be plagued by diseases
< p data-track="25">Sickness is the norm. Almost everyone will be sick in life.
After a person reaches the age of fifty, his physical function declines, and the speed of making money slows down.
Hu promises: “The life of a person is bounded by middle age. Before middle age, the life is increasing day by day. After middle age, blood Declining day by day means weary day by day.”
Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws.
Small ailments that you didn’t care about when you were young, gradually become obstacles that cannot be ignored on the road of aging.
Occasionally I feel unwell, and my mind will be cranky, but I dare not go to the hospital for medical treatment, because I am afraid of spending money. So, with a fluke mentality, tell yourself: everything will be fine.
When a man reaches the age of fifty, men are most afraid of getting sick, which is a kind of pressure for themselves and their families.
Life at fiftyHere, I understand that there are more places to spend money at home.
A man believes from the bottom of his heart that he should be the pillar of the family, and he doesn’t want to live as a burden to the family, so he dares not get sick, and is also afraid of getting sick.
04. Children stay away in old age, afraid of being divorced from their wives
When young, put children and parents in the most important position. For wives, often choose to ignore.
I always feel that a lifetime is still very long, and in the days to come, I can live a long life in Japan. But I never thought that in a blink of an eye, I would be old and not take good care of my wife.
When a person is old, his children leave him and start a small family, leaving only his wife to spend day and night at home.
Two people have gone through ups and downs for half of their lives together. For the rest of their lives, they are afraid that their marriage will not be managed well, they will be separated from their wives, and they will end up in a lonely and helpless situation in their later years.
On the way of getting old, it is a very happy thing to have someone who understands and cares about yourself by your side.
When a man reaches the age of fifty, he will be more afraid of losing his wife, but he is ashamed to express his love for his wife, so all kinds of conflicts and worries sweep over come.
Actually, it’s not too late. Children have their own lives, and at the age of fifty, parents can also start their own lives.
From now on, treat your wife well, the husband and wife will be full of warmth, and life will bloom with happiness.
05, Wen Qiusheng’s message
Liang Qiushi said: “The fun of middle age lies in a considerable understanding of life and yourself, so that you can do what you can do and enjoy the life you can enjoy.”
When a person turns 50, it is a watershed in life. Only by knowing how to manage your own life can you hold happiness.
In the second half of life, although I can’t have the high spirits of my youth, but with a different lifestyle and mentality, I can still exert my value within my ability.
A man supports his whole family in the first half of his life, and he has to take care of his body and his wife in the second half of his life.
In the family, you don’t have to pretend to be strong all the time, you have to learn to open your heart to get along with your family, express your inner needs, and face your own fragility calmly.
Life is only a few dozen years, and when you are old, you should live a good life now.
Face the road ahead with a normal heart, without anxiety or inferiority.
When you love life seriously, life will definitely give you back warmth.
About the author: Wen Qiusheng lives on words. The autumn wind boils the rain, a glass of sake, two or three stories, and I will be with you on the lonely road.