As the saying goes: “The more friends there are, the easier it is to walk.”
In fact, it is “the wolf travels a thousand miles to eat meat, and the dog travels a thousand miles to eat shit”, “carrots are picked for white, each has its own love”, and “a scholar is a confidant.” The woman is the one who pleases herself”, that is to say: “Not everyone and everyone can be friends”.
You are not RMB, it is impossible to satisfy everyone, and you are not the smile of Mona Lisa, to be consistent 24 hours a day, you only need a few It’s enough for the important person to handle the relationship well, and it’s just fine for the others.
Don’t try to please anyone, because the relationship that is maintained in a pleasing way usually won’t last, don’t inquire about the privacy of your friends at will, because you are just “friends”, there is such a thing You have no right to know.
The most common mistake people make is to talk to the wrong person about a topic that is not suitable for them to talk about. Heartbroken.