Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarized
True love is not like fireworks Like, fleeting, only brilliant moment. True love is like spring rain, lingering, moisturizing and silent.
Gebel said: “Genuine love is richest when it is given.”
When a man gives his heart, his love is not champagne roses, nor is it romantic flowers before the moon, but a kind of ordinary companionship and comfort in loneliness.
A man’s love is more willing to let go of his figure to make the girl he likes happy, always pay attention to her emotions, and want her to feel more happiness in this world Happiness and beauty.
However, love is beautiful and dreamy. Marriage, however, is very real, leaving only the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt, which often make people unable to see the traces of love.
In marriage, if you want to judge whether a man still loves you or not, in fact, you only need to observe how he looks when he comes home from get off work, and you can tell.
02. The attitude towards your wife after returning home determines the depth of love
After a man returns home, his attitude towards his wife is the degree to which he loves her.
A man who doesn’t love his wife, after returning home, yells at her, full of accusations and neglect; while a man who truly loves his wife, after returning home, he Treat his wife with tenderness and consideration.
In “Children of the Qiao Family”, there is such a plot: Qiao Zuwang’s wife is about to give birth, and she has already arrived at the hospital, but Qiao Zuwang is still at the poker table.
The elder sister of the neighbor pulled him off the poker table and told him to go to the hospital.
Qiao Zuwang was not in a hurry, and said that this is the fifth child, and it is not the first child. The mother of the child has experience, so he will not be able to help busy. His attitude made the elder sister of the neighbor very angry.
On weekdays, Qiao Zuwang is used to being alone and carefree, and doesn’t like to go home. Even when he got home, he treated his wife with indifference.
A man, when he doesn’t love his wife from the bottom of his heart, when he comes home and sees his wife, what he thinks of is whether he has cooked, whether the house is tidied up, and put him Just be comfortable.
A man who really loves his wife wants to give his wife more love and care after returning home, and hopes that she can get more care. For her, full of patience, full of tenderness.
03. After returning home, the mood of the man determines the atmosphere of the home< /h1>
When people get along with each other, their emotions can be contagious.
To judge whether a man loves his wife or not, it can be seen from his emotional processing after returning home.
If a man is in trouble at work, or someone makes him angry, he takes his emotions home and loses his temper at his wife, then the wife It will definitely feel sad and the atmosphere in the house will become tense.
“Xunzi·Self-cultivation” wrote: “Anger cannot be seized, joy cannot be given.”
It means: You can’t punish others excessively because you are angry, and give others special rewards when you are happy.
A man who truly loves his wife, no matter what happens outside, will deal with his emotions well before going home. No matter how many troubles you have, you can digest them in private, and you will not bring negative emotions to your wife.
He is used to reporting good news but not bad news, no matter how tired or hard he is, he is willing to give his wife a smiling face. Speak to your wife in a gentle tone and show enough patience.
The more a man loves his wife, the more he knows how to deal with his emotions, and he can calm his mood without affecting the harmonious and warm atmosphere of the family.
04. After returning home, a man’s dedication reflects his sense of responsibility
Whether a man loves his wife or not, and whether he has a sense of responsibility, can be seen from his appearance after returning home.
A man who loves his wife more has a sense of responsibility. After returning home, he likes to give more and undertake some housework as much as he can.
Zeng Guofan said: “Residing in an official position is just an accident, and staying at home is a long-term solution. , is still prosperous.”
A man who truly loves his wife, no matter what state he is outside, can recognize his own self when he returns home identity. At this time, there is no leader, no subordinates, and some are the husband of this woman and the father of the children.
He is willing to listen to his wife’s needs and will give care and education to his children. At home, perform your duties well, instead of burying your head in playing with your phone, or ignoring things at home.
A man who doesn’t love his wife never does housework when he gets home, and doesn’t care if his wife is tired or needs a rest. He doesn’t care about everything at home, just like a “hands-off shopkeeper”.
The more a man pays when he returns home after get off work, the more he pays to prove that home is more important to him.
His love is hidden in the palm of his hand, and he will give it little by little, so that his wife can feel his care every moment.
05, Wen Qiusheng’s message
Whether you like it or not, it will be very obvious.
If a man makes a woman feel discouraged and slowly despairs, then the atmosphere at home will get worse and worse.
A man who truly loves his wife will not stay out of it, likes to be “sticky”, and wants to do everything with his wife.
Cook together, clean up the house together. Play games with the children and talk about what happened today.
For the construction of the family, he is willing to participate and work hard. Wanting to communicate with his wife’s emotions, such a man can always maintain a very close relationship with his wife.
Maybe, men are usually busy with work and don’t have much time to spend with their wives.
However, after returning home, I can cook some favorite food for her, have some intimate interactions with the children, take the initiative to undertake some housework, and reduce the burden on my wife . These are all expressions of love.
The more a man loves his wife, the more he knows how to care for his wife after get off work, share the housework in time, and manage the atmosphere at home to be warm and sweet.
About the author: Wen Qiusheng lives on words. The autumn wind boils the rain, a glass of sake, two or three stories, and I will be with you on the lonely road.