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How many times can there be in life? Things change in the blink of an eye!
Bai Yansong said: “5% of life is happiness, 5% is pain, and the rest is mediocrity.”
What you thought was the truth, you only know what to do after suffering a loss .
These 3 truths should be understood as soon as possible, and it is not too late to understand now!
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I used to think that as long as I was good enough
When I get old, I understand why others don’t take you seriously? Just because you are so talkative.
Dong Qing said: “If you are so good that you have no reservations, the other party will dare to be so bad as to be unscrupulous.”
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No matter how good you are, some people will hate you; no matter how sincere you are, some people will plot against you.
After the painter Qi Baishi became famous, there was an endless stream of people coming to ask for paintings.
A Layman Li asked for a painting, and Qi Baishi gladly picked up a brush and drew a painting “The Loquat Is Ripe” for him .
The other party thanked the painting repeatedly after receiving it, but did not mention the cost at all, taking everything for granted.
Although Qi Baishi was unhappy, he kept quiet because of his face.
Who knows, a year later, the other party came to ask for a painting again, and this time they specially designated for He drew a big carp.
Qi Baishi was very dissatisfied, and added a poem eloquently:< /p>
We met last year but asked for a picture, and today we met and asked for a fish.
To pay tribute to the deceased Li Jushi, the poem is a letter of severance.
Another price list was hung in the living room, and marked:
Selling paintings regardless of friendship, a gentleman is ashamed, please pay according to Runge.
After reading this poem, Jushi Li blushed with embarrassment, and never dared to visit the door again.
Qi Baishi suddenly realized: Only by clearing the bottom line in time can he not be regarded as a “soft persimmon” .
Yi Shu said: “Life is short for dozens of years, the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. “
Instead of pleasing others, it is better to please yourself.
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I used to think that money can buy everything
When I get old, I realize that happiness has nothing to do with money.
No amount of money can buy life; no matter how big the house is, it cannot live for a lifetime.
Without a healthy body, the house is just a decoration, and the money is just waste paper.
Health is real estate, and everything else is just clouds.
47-year-old Shi Yonggang is the editor-in-chief of Phoenix Weekly, with a successful career and a happy family.
In an ordinary physical examination, he was diagnosed with adrenocortical carcinoma, and the doctor said that he would not live for 2 years.
The child is less than 1 year old, the house is being repaid, the life of a middle-aged person seems to be suddenly breakdown.
He underwent tumor resection in Beijing, but unfortunately, after 3 months, the lesion still metastasized .
In order to treat the disease, he sold the family house and experienced 2 operations, 5 recurrences and transfers, 4 emergency visits, 6 radiotherapy sessions, and finally “rebirth”.
The most valuable thing in the world is not a ticket, a house, or a car, but a healthy body.
Without good health, who will take care of the family, and who will bear the responsibility for life?
With a salary of five thousand, there are five thousand troubles; with a salary of fifty thousand, there are fifty thousand troubles.
If you don’t have much money, it’s because you can’t take it away, not because you can’t keep it.
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I used to think that life would be very long
I realized when I got old, Another name for waiting is regret.
Eating a bowl of food in the world is less than a bowl;
Time is like a chessboard, and time is like a chess piece.
A blink of an eye is a day, a turn of the eye is a year, and a turn is a lifetime.
When Mr. Lao She was young, in order to escape the war, he stayed away from his hometown and his mother.
Every time I receive a letter from home, I dare not open it immediately.
Others asked him why, he said: “I am afraid, I am afraid that the letter from home will bring bad news “
Mother’s birthday is in September, and Lao She sent a letter home to celebrate her birthday in the middle of August.
After receiving the reply letter, I realized that my mother had passed away for a whole year!
We are not in a hurry, we always think that the future will be long, but we forget that we have to face the impermanence of the world more often.
Time is like fine sand at the fingertips, when it comes, if you can’t clenched your fists in time , then it will slither past and slip away.
Zhuangzi said: If there is a gap between heaven and earth in life, it will be all of a sudden.
We have already seen life clearly, there is no quiet time, only feathers.
Don’t always hurry, longing for distant goals, and miss the scenery in front of you.
Life can’t stand waiting, cherish the people in front of you, and do what you want now.
There is no rehearsal for the rest of your life, only optimistic and kind people can get the favor of good luck.