Author: Wen Qiusheng
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Life at the age of forty, A person has gradually matured. For life, I have a new understanding and a new understanding.
When I was a teenager, I looked forward to the future life infinitely, and felt that everything was possible; what meal.
The best way to live is not to be too aggressive or forceful in everything.
Yi Shu wrote in “The End of the Earth”: “When I was forty years old, I was in good health, had some savings, was married, and had a considerate husband , the child is obedient, and has a job that he really likes. This is success. You don’t need to be famous or rich.”
When a person reaches the age of forty, To live sanely.
Adjust your own pace of life, and learn to let go of some things. Try to restrain your desires, make some subtractions to your life appropriately, and return to an ordinary life, and you will often gain more happiness.
After the age of forty, it is recommended that you stop doing three things to avoid misery in your later years.
02. Don’t take the trouble of contracting your children to cause trouble, lest your children become independent< /h1>
On the road of life, the love of parents for their children is pampering and pity. I can’t see my children being hurt, and I always want to do my best to care for them.
However, excessive pampering will make children not independent and prevent them from growing up better.
A mother’s darling, said Fuller.
If, as a parent, everything is arranged properly for the children and the children are not allowed to suffer a little, then they will not know how they should get along with others.
It is not conducive to the growth of children to keep children under their own wings.
Parents cannot follow their children all their lives, let alone make decisions for them.
After the age of forty, you should teach your children to be independent, cultivate a strong heart, and have the ability to deal with wind and rain independently. Such love will be more rational.
In the future, please stop accepting the troubles caused by your children, and don’t deal with the aftermath of the troubles they caused, let them face it by themselves. By not being overly involved in your children’s lives, they can truly grow and gain experience in how to deal with the world.
03. Don’t leave feelings outside of marriage and suffer from a broken marriage
The world of love is so small that it can only accommodate two people.
Even if there are many misunderstandings and conflicts between husband and wife, and the relationship is not going well, you should restrain yourself and not show mercy outside of marriage.
Especially at the age of forty, marriage has become stable. Although it is plain, it hides great happiness.
The children have gradually grown up, and the living conditions at home have gradually improved. It is not easy for your lover to accompany you through more than ten years of ups and downs.
In middle age, please guard your heart, guard your marriage, ensure financial security, develop steadily, and add more fun to your life.
In doing so, you are responsible for your lover, children, and even yourself.
The life of forty years old cannot withstand too much trouble. Don’t look for love outside of marriage, otherwise you will suffer from a broken marriage, and your old age may be extremely difficult.
Instead of looking for love outside of marriage, it is better to put more effort into managing the marriage, treat the lover well, and make life sweet and prosperous.
To keep your marriage and your current life is to keep your own happiness.
04. Don’t rush to take shortcuts, take the road of deficit savings< /h1>
Stability is a way of life that middle-aged people desire most.
Stable income, stable life, and stable career can relieve the pressure in life.
At the age of forty, energy begins to decline, and many people have a “mid-life crisis”. Therefore, I always want to make some investments, or start a business, and earn more money while I am still young.
However, there is no such thing as pie in the sky, the more high profits are in front of you, the greater the risk factor. Blind investment is very likely to lose everything.
Bacon said: “Life is like a road. The shortest shortcut is usually the worst.”
When people reach middle age, they should live more cautiously and not invest rashly in their careers.
If you can’t resist the temptation and want to make a lot of money, you will often become the target of being deceived. Only when you have nothing, you will know how much suffering it will be to take shortcuts.
When you are forty years old, don’t rush to take shortcuts and keep your savings. Don’t empty your savings and pile yourself up in debt. Otherwise, the rest of my life will be spent in anxiety and pain.
Keeping your own wealth and maintaining a stable income is the best way for middle-aged people to live.
05, Message from Wen Qiusheng
On the road of life, let yourself live a more rational and steady life.
Everyone hopes that their life will get better and better, but every step of the way needs to be down-to-earth, not taken for granted.
For children, do not pay too much; for marriage, maintain a loyalty; for career, do not rush for quick success, based on reality, and develop steadily.
Before the age of forty, in “fighting the country”, work hard to start a business, work hard to make money, and work hard. In the days after the age of forty, it is more important to keep the present happiness.
Take control of your own life seriously, and a brighter light will shine on the road ahead.
About the author: Wen Qiusheng lives on words. The autumn wind boils the rain, a glass of sake, two or three stories, and I will be with you on the lonely road.