Qianjiang Evening News·Hourly News Special Commentator Hu Xinhong
According to Qianjiang Evening News Hourly News, Zhejiang University The ID photo on the work card of Bian Rui, an oncology nurse in the hospital, has a huge contrast with her own. On the work card, she has long hair that reaches half waist, neat air bangs, and a sweet and dignified smile; in reality, the new The short hair that came out was slightly messy, revealing a striking brain door, like a tomboy.
Long hair and waist-length hair is the dream of many beauty-loving girls. Why did Bian Rui do the opposite?
Bian Rui works in oncology surgery, and doctors usually recommend that children shave their hair before chemotherapy. Occasionally, a little girl with all her hair, eyebrows and eyelashes fell out and said a joke, “I have no hair at all!”, which touched her deeply and gave birth to the idea of shaving her own head. On the last day of last year, she resolutely cut off the half-waist-length hair that she had grown since she was a child.
“The little sister who is as warm as an angel, has a beautiful heart”, “a girl with love, her bald head is still beautiful”, “the most beautiful angel”… Looking at the two contrasting photos, netizens They said they were getting warmer.
Cut off a hair, it may seem like a trivial matter, but it has to “fight” against “worldly” notions. After the college entrance examination, she wanted to cut her hair very short. At that time, she was dissuaded by a group of relatives “girls should look like girls”. Even for a young man, shaving his head will attract a different “attention ceremony”, and doing so by a girl’s family is even more “deviant”. Even the hairdresser who shaved the girl’s head for the first time was struggling.
Shaving your head is not to be “cute and cool”, but to be more conducive to work. With the conspicuous bald “sign”, she successfully penetrated into the children and won the cordial titles of “bald nurse” and “short-haired nurse”. A 5-year-old girl, her big eyes watered with tears when her mother proposed to cut her hair, crying and fussing. Bian Rui “showed up and said”, and asked the little girl to touch her bald head to persuade the little girl to cut her hair.
Faced with children, some people often squat down and talk to show respect. Shaving hair is of course the need for chemotherapy, but it is not easy to make ignorant children accept such “reasons” only in a rational way. Especially for some little girls who love beauty, such a “disaster” is even more unbearable pain. It is very unfortunate to have a tumor, and if you want to shave your head in a “forced” way, it will be even more painful. Bian Ruishao has the same bald head as the children, and it is also a special kind of “squatting down and talking”, which reflects the warmth and care of an excellent medical staff.
“Sometimes heals, often helps, always comforts”. The words engraved on Dr. Trudeau’s tombstone are very enlightening. Medical staff not only need rich medical knowledge and practical accumulation, but also always help and comfort patients with compassion. In many cases, being able to put yourself in the patient’s shoes, or even a sincere look, may be more important than the medical skills themselves. “I want to tell the children that a bald head can be handsome and cute!” A nurse with a “bald head” standing in a ward full of little bald heads is self-evident.
The “bald head nurse” in the children’s tumor ward, behind the warm heart beating is a doctor’s benevolent heart. Although Bian Rui’s shaved head is only a trivial matter, it contains a strong humanistic concern, which is the key to touching the public.