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I am going to write about Rui Xiaodan today, when I am going to write When I was with Rui Xiaodan, I discovered that Rui Xiaodan was more difficult to write than Ding Yuanying. This character is really very difficult to write.
If Ding Yuanying’s greatness is obvious to all , and there are many factual basis, then Rui Xiaodan’s realm is so high that it is flowing and invisible.
Rui Xiaodan looks ordinary , not so powerful, but in fact, as described in the book and in the TV series, Rui Xiaodan is the daughter of the kingdom of heaven.
(Rui Xiaodan, the character in “Tian Dao”)
1. Why does Ding Yuanying say that she is not as good as Rui Xiaodan?
One night Rui Xiaodan came to Ding Yuanying’s The house was dark, but there was a strong smell of cigarettes coming from her face. She turned on the light but saw Ding Yuanying leaning back on the sofa.
Rui Xiaodan jokingly asked him why he didn’t turn on the lights , is not meditating.
Ding Yuanying jokingly answered, yes, yes Joining her.
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“On your terms, if you return to China from Frankfurt to visit relatives It may be more logical. At least in the eyes of ordinary people, your state of existence is a disease.”
“The income of the hotel shares is several times your salary. If you did not have this part of the income, if Ouyang Xue lost the business at the beginning, now you will be What’s going on?”
” or resign to Looking for another way to make money? Or studying at Frankfurt University? Then the circle is too big. You were not so naive at the time that you didn’t know what the salary of the police was. Wouldn’t it be easier not to apply for the police exam?”
It is generally believed that Rui Xiaodan has a good family background If you have a German residence status, you can find a better, richer and easier way out. Few people will choose to do criminal police work with high risks and low wages.
So Rui Xiaodan’s choice is in the eyes of ordinary people It’s abnormal, it’s sick, it’s even stupid.
But for Rui Xiaodan, the police are The career she loves, she likes the job of a criminal police officer, she likes to do it, and she does it when she has the opportunity. She didn’t weigh the pros and cons, she didn’t hesitate or struggle, she just came and went freely.
“In Buddhist terms it is the Self Being free is freedom. What is freedom? It’s liberation.”
So Ding Yuanying said: “I’m not as good as you.”
2. The difference between Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan.
Knowing is divided into four Layer Realm:
The first layer: I don’t know I don’t know (the most ignorant state) p>
Second layer: know that you don’t know (begin to learn to be humble)
Tier 3: Know what you know (for yourself and the world) With clear positioning and cognition)
Fourth layer: I don’t know what I know (integrate and integrate freely)
If Ding Yuanying is still in the third realm of knowing what he knows, then Rui Xiaodan is already in the realm of freedom without knowing what he knows.
Ding Yuanying lives in the future This is the beginning of the way of doing things, so whether you are looking at people or doing things, you are following this set of rules.
So Ding Yuanying participated from the beginning Because of Rui Xiaodan’s personality, there is a high probability that he will die because of being a criminal policeman. He once persuaded Rui Xiaodan to resign unconventionally, even if he knew that Rui Xiaodan could not listen to him.
When he persuaded Rui Xiaodan to resign, he said: “You should resign. Note that you should, not I hope.”
In terms of the value of life and death, Rui Xiaodan should resign, but in terms of the value of life, being a criminal policeman is Rui Xiaodan’s mission and belief.
Rui Xiaodan is living in the moment, self-nature At ease, without ignorance of cause and effect. She also knows that being a criminal police officer has great risks, but being a criminal police officer is a reflection of her life value. Since she loves it, she will bear all the consequences.
Only do not know cause and effect, live in the moment only dare to make such a choice.
For Rui Xiaodan, he wanted to be a criminal police officer I chose to be a criminal policeman without hesitation. When I encountered danger, I would stand up decisively. Unfortunately, my legs were blown up and my face was disfigured in the process of police enforcement. suicide.
Description of Rui Xiaodan between the lines in the book Without any entanglement, hesitation, tweaking, or pretense, Rui Xiaodan lives in the present moment by nature, living when he is alive, and dying when he is dead.
Life is the love of blooming life, death is the thought There is no need to live anymore, life and death are a state of ease for her.
In the TV series “Tian Dao”, Rui Xiaodan’s Suicide was adapted into being killed in the line of duty. It may be that the act of suicide is not in line with mainstream values, but the description of the novel here makes the character of Rui Xiaodan more three-dimensional and profound.
Ding Yuanying lives in the future cause and effect, So always wandering in thinking, like ginseng and ginseng.
And Rui Xiaodan lives in the moment, not The ego has reached a state of freedom.
Looks ungrounded, but Living comfortably and transparently is truly a daughter of the kingdom of heaven. This is a supreme state.
Rui Xiaodan is a person with great love. Whether he chooses to be a criminal policeman or asks Ding Yuanying to help Wangmiao Village get rid of poverty, the starting point is others, and he has faith in his heart and others in his heart. , without making any demands on others.
Few people in life can reach Rui Xiaodan Most people can neither let go of their ego, nor have great love in their hearts, so Rui Xiaodan represents a belief and an ideal state.
3, Rui Xiaodan, Ouyang Xue and Xiao Yawen’s different understandings of men and women.
Rui Xiaodan, Ouyang Xue , Xiao Yawen, these three people have completely different understandings of men and women.
In Ouyang Xue’s opinion, she feels There is a very big difference between men and women. She told Rui Xiaodan that Ding Yuanying was not the same as us, and that Rui Xiaodan couldn’t hold him, so women had to let men pursue them. She felt that women who took the initiative to pursue a man were backwards.
Xiao Yawen feels that Ding Yuanying is afraid of women in his bones , The meaning of fear is actually contempt. She said that the cheap things in women’s bones can’t be thrown away by women, so Xiao Yawen is very stubborn in the gender of women.
Rui Xiaodan said a very classic sentence, If you can hold it, don’t take it. If you can’t hold it, you can’t take it. What do you take?
In Rui Xiaodan’s view, it is not necessarily what men do Things are not necessarily things that women have to do. When a person has no ego, he can be both male and female.
Not necessarily within the norm for men and women To do things, if you need to do the so-called men’s things, do the so-called men’s things, and if you need to do the so-called women’s things, do the so-called women’s things.
It is this point that has been reached with Ding Yuanying Resonance, Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan did not distinguish between men and women, Ding Yuanying is not afraid of women, but away from the sentient beings, not caring about the sentient beings with me, regardless of gender.
A man can be either a man or a man Like a woman, a woman can be both a woman and a man.
When a person strongly wants to express You must be like a man or a woman, which is precisely the embodiment of egoism.
Ding Yuanying often behaves in obedience and avoidance Hidden and miserable, she is not obsessed with the image that men must be strong and independent. Rui Xiaodan will confess when she loves her, and cry bitterly when she is rejected. She is not obsessed with the image that women must be reserved and gentle.
This is a state of ease, Rui Xiaodan confessed when she loved her, she knew that Ding Yuanying would leave sooner or later, she cherished the days together. She knew that being a criminal policeman was dangerous, but she still chose to be a criminal policeman. When performing tasks, she knew her life was in danger and still fulfilled her duty as a police officer. die.
Rui Xiaodan’s free performance is now, estimated In the end, you still make choices and take responsibility for your choices.
It is true that it is difficult for most people in life to achieve Rui Xiaodan’s realm requires more experience to slowly comprehend.
Young people are dead, look at the mountains Mountain, water is water; red dust is disturbing, mountain is not mountain, water is not water; after countless trials, mountain is still mountain, water is stillwater.
Those who have entered the free state can take a glance Seeing through the essence of things and making choices that conform to your heart will return to the original state of things.
This step is achieved, which is probably Confucius said, “At seventy, do what you want without breaking the rules.”
I wrote it here today, I think Rui Xiaodan is a character It is worth learning, but it is difficult to apply it immediately. There are two characters in this novel that I think are more suitable for ordinary people to learn and apply. One is Ouyang Xue and the other is Xiao Yawen. I plan to write about them in the next article.
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