In Luo Guanzhong’s Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang has three temperaments and Zhou Yu.
The reason why Zhuge Liang succeeded in Zhou Yu’s three temperaments is mainly due to his full understanding of Zhou Yu’s personality. 36-year-old Zhou Yu is young and frivolous, but he is narrow-minded, strong-willed, competitive, irritable, and temperamental. Zhuge Liang also precisely caught his Achilles heel.
When emotions are leaked, people are the most vulnerable, any emotion can hurt us, and the generation of emotions is unavoidable.
How to control emotions is simple to say, but it is not a cold day.
Controlling emotions is not about suppressing them, and the emotional breakdown of adults is often instantaneous. Emotions cannot be suppressed, and after a long time, the sudden outbreak will be more harmful. Zhuangzi said: Soldiers should not be arrogant, but should be under the command. The influence of emotions on a person is more lethal than the sharpest sword, the ancient artifact trombone.
Being dumbfounded, everyone knows this idiom, but how many people know the source, there is a saying in “Zhuangzi. , it has not changed, and it looks like a wooden chicken; its virtue is complete, and those who do not dare to respond will go away.
A person who has experienced real guns and real swords The training he has received has long been greater than the field of a chicken, even if it is a fighting chicken among the fighting chickens, many days of training have made him forget life and death. During the cockfighting competition, it does not just rush to the opponent, it is calm and composed , there is nothing in his eyes, although he is dumbfounded, but for its opponents, the aura wins, and the murderous aura makes other chickens retreat without a fight.
Lao Tzu’s Tao Te Ching has It is said that those who are good at being soldiers are not martial; those who are good at fighting are not angry; those who are good at defeating the enemy do not fight; those who are good at using others are inferior. Extremely.
It also emphasizes emotions. It is not easy to get angry, and you must have great wisdom. All emotions may be your weakness. Great joy is adjacent to the yang, and great compassion is adjacent to the yin.< /p>
Control emotions, face up to their own personality shortcomings, and objectively accommodate things around them. Emotions arise from the interaction of subjective factors, environmental factors, neural processes and endocrine processes. It is not something that can be suppressed. , but it can control the expression of emotions, not too happy or too sad, and not to extreme emotions.
Success The secret is to know how to control the power of pain and pleasure without being countered by it.
People have different personalities and different ways to control their emotions. There are thousands of beautiful skins, and different people’s emotions seem to be the same but different. Control your emotions, Napoleon once said, control your emotions is king.