People who are obsessed with personal gains and losses are always more likely to have trouble and pain than selfless people

When you realize that your attachments and attachments are fickle and will not last forever, your heart will naturally relax, relax a little more, and finally feel like lying on the green grass under the warm sun Comfortable and comfortable, you will not feel tired, and you will be able to face the world and the many things you have experienced with ease. Only then are you truly indestructible.

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When you are in the emptiness and clarity, you will find, Any experience will pass. Once it’s over, everything is just a memory. If you cling to a painful experience, the memory perpetuates its damage to you; if you don’t care about it, it’s just a dream bubble, not in any way different from some pleasant experience. They are just a few fragments of your life journey, fleeting, together constitute the traces and evidence of your life.

Therefore, people who are obsessed with personal gains and losses are always more likely to have trouble and pain than selfless people, because they There are always too many desires that cannot be satisfied. They care about what others think of them, the attitude of the world toward them, and whether their efforts are rewarded. They always hold on to too many illusory phenomena and refuse to let go. They always think that this is a kind of shrewdness and sobriety, and they disdain to reflect on whether it is another fallacy. But they don’t understand that the source of the pain is all this care and shrewdness. They who can’t see this clearly are not really sober people, nor are they people who really love themselves, let alone know how to love others. They may be able to achieve many worldly achievements, they may not, but it is certain that they must be very tiring who are good at calculating.

If you want to solve the troubles, or not to have troubles, you must remember that when many existences in the world appear in your mind, your sincerity must be Always be sensitive and clear, don’t be dazed. That is to say, when facing the world, you must always remain calm and sober, pay attention to observe every thought in your heart, and don’t let the complicated and changing things take your heart away, and don’t indulge yourself in a certain emotion. Don’t be groggy, not responding at all. At this point, you will not be swayed by delusions such as concepts, experiences, desires, and prejudices.