I have a male colleague with whom I have a son with my first wife. Later, for unknown reasons, I got divorced. The son followed him, and the daughter-in-law married another person.
The days when I first got divorced were okay, but as time went on, my colleagues and my son and two men lived together, it was really difficult, but my wife has become It’s someone else’s, there’s nothing to do, and it’s useless to regret it. So two years after the divorce, he married a woman with a girl.
In his words, as long as this woman takes good care of herself and her son, most of the money will be given to her, and she will listen to everything. But it’s easier said than done. Especially after my son goes to junior high school, there are more and more places to spend money, all kinds of cram schools, all kinds of tutoring materials, all kinds of mock training tests, but women are more and more stingy about this aspect, spending most of the money. on her daughter. The conflict between them gradually emerged.
After her son graduated from junior high school, he went to high school again, so he had more money to spend. Her daughter also went to junior high school, which was really a kind of torture. Finally, he made up his mind again: hurry up and get a divorce. But when I thought about it, the woman was resolute and refused to give her 150,000 yuan in damages if she insisted on divorce.
But the salary has been given to her in recent years, and he doesn’t even have 50,000. In the end, there was no way. With the help and persuasion of many people, after all, she collected 50,000 yuan and gave it to her, and then the marriage was divorced.
Afterwards, he talked about it when he was drinking with me. He said that it was a big mistake to marry a woman with children in a second marriage. Cherish it, or you will regret it once you lose it!
It seems that my colleague finally understands it this time!