There are many rains during the Qingming Festival. Every time, a little bit of rain will be poured on our hearts, and a seed called missing will grow again.
April is hazy with misty rain and beautiful scenery, but always with a touch of sadness. We cherish the memory of our ancestors and our dearest family members who have passed away.
In addition to missing, we learn to cherish the things in front of us and the people in front of us. Living well is the best consolation for our ancestors.
- There is a kind of missing, called Qingming.
“Qingming”
Tang Du Mu
There is a lot of rain during the Qingming season, and pedestrians on the road want to Broken soul.
Where is the restaurant? The shepherd boy pointed to Xinghua Village.
When this poem gradually emerges in everyone’s mind, we know that the Qingming Festival is coming.
Years of Qingming, year after year of concern, time and again, memories every minute and every second.
Let me know clearly:
Although happy reunions are rare in life and partings are frequent, I hope that when people leave this world, they will have eternal life in another place; no pain, no disease , there is no reincarnation of life and death in the world.
As we live in the moment, we must know how short life is, and we should cherish it in our lifetime. Cherish the fleeting years, cherish the people and things around you.
- There is a kind of nostalgia called eternity.
“Qingming Night”
Tang·Bai Juyi
A good wind, hazy moon, Qingming night, Biji Hongxuan prefects.
Walking around the corridor alone to rest, listening to the strings and watching the flowers in secret.
Tomb-sweeping Day is not a festival, but a thought from the bottom of my heart.
I miss my relatives and old friends. They really left, and they seem to have been by your side and have not changed.
What is lost cannot come back, and what is possessed should be cherished even more.
The dead are gone, and so are the living. I pray that my loved ones will be free from illness and have peace of mind in other worlds.
- There is a kind of attribution called Tangli Huaying Poplar.
“Han Shi Ye Wang Yin”
Tang·Bai Juyi
The arbor with the black sing, magpie and noise , Who is crying at Qingming Hanshi?
The wind blows paper money in the wilderness, and the ancient tombs are built with green spring grass.
Tangli flowers reflect the poplar trees.
Mingming Chongquan was crying, but Xiaoxiao and Muyu went back.
The meticulous description renders the atmosphere: paper money fluttering in the wind, ancient tombs, pear blossoms, poplars… everything in the cemetery gives people a sense of slaughter, which makes people feel sad.
Going back in the twilight rain, it looks like a depression, but it is actually a symbol of abandoning death to life – there will be a sunny tomorrow after the twilight rain. Leaving the cemetery representing death and walking towards the fireworks in the world is the correct attitude towards death.
- There is a wisdom called living in the moment.
“Qingming”
Song·Huang Tingjian
Qingming Festival Peach and Plum Smile, Notian Barren Tomb Just sad.
Thunder, the world is stunned by dragons and snakes.
People begged for sacrifices to arrogant concubines, and Shigan burned the unjust princes to death.
The wise and foolish know who they are for thousands of years.
The festive season is clear and bright, and nature is full of vitality and flowers are in full bloom. The vibrant spring scenery of nature is in stark contrast to life and death.
The fate of death that people cannot escape, no matter the dignitaries or ordinary people, no matter how intelligent or stupid, in the end it is the same destination: death. Just live in the moment, stay true to yourself, and be your best self.
- There is a kind of haunted dream, called hometown
“Crossing the Han River”
Questions of Tang and Song Dynasties
Ling Wai Yin Shu Duan, through the winter and the calendar spring.
Near-nostalgia is even more timid, and dare not ask people who come.
In every wanderer’s heart, there is a hometown. It is the root of longing and the resting place of ancestors.
Yu Guangzhong said in “Nostalgia”: When I was a child, nostalgia was a small stamp. I was on this side and my mother was on the other side.
Fire paper is burned everywhere, and every family celebrates the Qingming Festival. When I remembered the old house when I was a child, the rice wine my mother made was out of reach, and I burst into tears.
- There is a kind of sadness called farewell
“Jiangchengzi·Yimao’s Night Dream on the 20th of the First Moon”
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Ten years of life and death are uncertain.
A thousand miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate.
Even if they meet each other, they should not know each other, their faces are full of dust, and their temples are like frost.
At night, You Meng suddenly returned to his hometown, Xiaoxuan Window was dressing.
We are speechless, except for tears.
It is expected that the place where the intestines are broken every year, the moonlit night, the short Matsuoka.
Only those who have experienced life and death will know how to love and cherish more.
Today’s Ching Ming Festival, may the person you hold in your arms is not far away;
Thank you to the deceased relatives, it was your passing that made us think deeply about life.
How short is human life! You should cherish it in your lifetime.
- There is a great love, called parents
“Yuan Day” Cry first, Lord”
Qing·Zhou Shuyuan
I missed her tears overnight, and recovered again in the morning.
Afraid of hurting the mother’s will, it flows to the side of the pillow.
People often say: When parents are there, life still has a place to come;
Bi Shumin once said:
There are some things that we cannot understand when we are young. We are no longer young when we understand.
Some things in the world can be made up, and some things can never be made up…
The biggest mistake people make is to think that there is still time.
Because Japan is a long time coming, there is no need to rush anything.
Maybe you still have a lot of time, but the future of your parents is not long.
Some feelings, can’t wait. Some love, to be timely.
Life is walking, you might as well turn your head, give your parents a tight hug, and say aloud: “I love you”.
- There is a wish to live a good life
“Let’s meet you at the first meeting in Yangzhou”
Tang·Liu Yuxi
Bashan Chushui was desolate, abandoned for 23 years.
Nostalgic empty chanting and listening to flute and fu.
A thousand sails pass by the side of the sinking boat, and a thousand trees spring ahead of the sick tree.
Today, I will listen to Jun’s song and grow my spirit with a glass of wine.
Besides the sunken ship, thousands of ships are passing by, but there are thousands of trees in front of the sick tree. If the heart is facing the sun, can we keep the clouds and mists dispersed, and the spring flowers bloom.
The deceased has passed away, so is the living, grasping the moment is the greatest tribute to the deceased; living happily is the greatest respect for life.
Qingming is clear and bright, and the mind is clear. It is not only a time of grief, but also an opportunity to let go of the past and look forward to tomorrow. After the Qingming Festival, may you run towards a better tomorrow with the thoughts of your ancestors.
Today’s Qingming Festival is the time to mourn the dead.
A pot of wine is a tribute to the memory of the past; a ray of incense is a hope for the future.
We wish our loved ones all the best, and pray for us to be safe every year.
Lin Qingxuan once said: “If people can go back happily, death can’t kill people, but people kill death.”
Life and death are the only things we can’t control , but we can choose to say goodbye calmly and happily.
It is better to face it and warm it with love than to be afraid of parting and death. Perhaps this is the most beautiful meaning of Qingming Festival.