As far as I can see, the lack of A loved child basically has the following characteristics:
1, Not willing to cause trouble to others, do not ask for help if you can do it yourself, including parents. Get used to facing everything alone.
2, When in love, if no one is selected , the money will be unwilling to owe the other party. In fact, there has always been a steel scale in my heart, which is convenient for me to pull away at any time.
3, Fear of marriage, no matter how close the relationship seems, only Being able to evacuate at any time is the only way to keep yourself safe.
4, More alone, less friends, will I find it difficult to communicate. I prefer to be alone than to socialize.
5, Have low self-esteem and always feel that I am not good enough. (so everyone persuaded themselves to find a better time, but still refused to Let go. For example, if you like someone, you always feel that you are not worthy of him. To be precise, it should be a low sense of self-worth. In fact, there is another state of this. The opposite of extreme self-esteem is extreme self-esteem, so some people As soon as I find something wrong, I will slip away. I never want to wait until the day I am abandoned. It is better to leave first. Let me break up and pretend that I have a choice.)
6.Take parting lightly. It is also acceptable to live in an unfamiliar city by yourself. Parting seems to have become a habit. Therefore, whether it is friendship, love, family, or the feelings of all kinds of people, in their eyes, it is just a passing glance, and it is not important at all. However, the above symptoms can be improved, such as staying away from the original lack of love environment, such as meeting some warm people, such as having the ability to work independently and so on. everything will get better. You can’t choose the past, but you can choose your future life!
In the long run, the child will become hopeless, irritable, irritable, kind, cold-blooded, conceited, and inferior. Dealing with interpersonal relationships will go to extremes.
Mediocre, worrying about gains and losses, insecure, contradictory and awkward On the one hand, I am very eager to be understood, but once I am understood, I feel that there is nothing to hide.
In a relationship, if things go against your wishes, you must cut the weeds without leaving any room for you. If you take me one step further, I will take three steps towards you. If you take one step back, I will definitely take 10,000 steps back. To run home and lock the door I’m sharp and fierce I’m not going to be the one left behind. I will never believe “I will not betray you I will always be with you” I will never believe it.
My heart is desolate, like a stagnant water I can’t believe I’m wading through the four seasons alone in murky waters with an expressionless face.
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