Xiao Ling is the only child in the family. Growing up in a honeypot. Because of this, her character has become domineering, even a little indifferent.
It is said that the couple was matched by God. Despite her superior family, he fell deeply in love with Xiao Zhang from the countryside.
Fortunately, Xiao Zhang tolerated everything, and this marriage finally went smoothly. But there is one thing, after marriage, Xiaoling never let people from her mother-in-law’s family come to the door. Especially for her mother-in-law, she hates it in every possible way.
One year after marriage, Xiaoling became pregnant.
As the birth date approaches, Xiao Ling’s temper gets worse.
Although Xiao Zhang comes from a rural area, he loves learning the day after tomorrow. In the face of his wife’s increasingly bad temper, he asked around and also went online to ask why.
A doctor friend gave him more reliable information: Xiaoling may be anxious during pregnancy. At the same time, Xiao Zhang was reminded to pay attention to regulating his daughter-in-law’s emotions, otherwise the postpartum may evolve into “postpartum depression”.
Postpartum depression, also known as postpartum depression. It is currently believed that postpartum depression is not an independent disease, but a special period of depression that occurs in women after childbirth, usually referring to depression within four weeks after childbirth.
The latest research shows that although most occur within four weeks after delivery, some women may experience it earlier, or even before delivery.
On the day of giving birth, Xiaoling was admitted to the hospital with eighteen grievances.
The mother-in-law heard that her daughter-in-law was about to have a baby, so she got up early and came from the countryside hundreds of miles away.
Outside the ward, she was hesitant to hear her daughter-in-law’s grievances and her losing her temper again. It is not that I am afraid that my daughter-in-law will be powerful, but I am afraid that it will affect the birth of children. As an experienced person, she knows the importance of controlling emotions.
However, when the contractions started coming, she couldn’t control it any longer. Every cry of the daughter-in-law pierced into her heart like a knife.
The pain of pregnancy and childbirth in October, she knew it was something a woman should go through. But when her daughter-in-law was in pain, she couldn’t help it.
Clenching his hands tightly, he was anxiously thinking about what to do when his legs involuntarily walked into the ward.
Seeing the mother-in-law come in, the daughter-in-law broke out smoothly, and even lost basic respect and shouted: Get out for me!
Xiao Zhang, who was honest and friendly, almost broke out of his temper when he heard this. But at this time, reason told him not to be in a hurry, but he couldn’t think of a good way for a while.
Although he couldn’t bear to be yelled at by his mother, Xiaoling and the child were more important at this time, so he could only endure coaxing Xiaoling.
In order to save her daughter-in-law from suffering, the mother-in-law found the doctor with almost dripping tears.
The doctor told her: There is no way. The hospital has childbirth analgesia, but Xiaoling has been angry with everyone since the moment she was hospitalized. Nurses, stay away.
The uneducated mother-in-law asked the doctor, what is labor pain relief?
In her opinion, her daughter-in-law cannot suffer any more in this life.
The doctor told her that there are many ways to relieve labor pain, such as listening to music, birthing balls, or water birth. The most effective method is intraspinal analgesia with the help of the anesthesiologist.
I told Xiaoling about this labor pain relief before, but she said that the anesthesiology department took the opportunity to charge for labor pain relief.
Although Xiaoling was pampered from a young age, their lives were not rich. For this reason, the mother-in-law has always blamed herself for not helping the children.
I heard the doctor say there is a way, motherThe mother-in-law said firmly to the doctor: Give her a labor pain relief, and I will pay the money. If she asks about spending money, say the free places she applies for.
Shortly after the anesthesiologist performed the puncture, Xiaoling felt her pain plummet. There was still some pain, but it was bearable.
As the pain eased, Xiaoling’s mood also improved. What’s more, he asked Xiao Zhang to buy her a can of food.
At the door, the mother-in-law, who had been listening to the delivery room, blocked Xiao Zhang, who was going to buy canned food, and said: I’ll go, you take care of your daughter-in-law.
After a while, my mother-in-law bought the cans.
After eating the sweet food, Xiaoling felt better. Even brushed on the phone.
Seeing Xiaoling’s emotional stability, Xiao Zhang felt that it was time to ease the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If it is still stiff at this time, it may be a lifetime.
Xiao Zhang stroked Xiao Ling’s head and whispered: This labor pain relief is the money that Mom gave you.
Hearing this, Xiaoling was stunned.
Turn his head, Xiao Zhang called to the door: Mom, come in.
Seeing the helpless mother-in-law, Xiaoling cried out: Mom, I was wrong.