No one is perfect. No matter what you do or deal with, you will always encounter unpleasant things. Sometimes it is your own fault, and sometimes it may be someone else’s fault. This is mainly due to everyone’s different perceptions of things, it is normal .
So, how to deal with these problems and the difficulty of figuring out who is right and who is wrong? Since we can’t change others, the only way is to be brave in self-examination, be good at self-examination, be good at self-evidence, and accelerate growth.
First, about “the courage to self-examination”
Confucius said: “I examine my body three times a day.” When problems arise, it is difficult for most people to calm down immediately, let alone find problems from themselves. This is called “impulse is the devil”.
The correct way is to calm down slowly, come up with a clearer idea or roadmap, and first find out the problems and deficiencies in oneself, and then prescribe the right medicine.
Finding problems and deficiencies from oneself requires courage and courage. This requires continuous strengthening of one’s own general pattern, and efforts to improve one’s quality and self-cultivation.
Second, about “being good at self-examination”
Introspection is self-examination. There are two main aspects. One is to reflect on the experience gained from successful things; Accumulate experience for future work through reflection.
Third, about “being better than self-evident”
Being greater than self-evident means that you can make yourself clear and understand. Understand why things can be successful, understand why things have shortcomings and shortcomings.
At the same time, it is necessary to identify the focus and direction of improvement in the future through reflection and sorting out, and provide reference and follow to ensure the smooth completion of future work.
Fourth, about “accelerating growth”
Through the above three steps, one’s own pattern will gradually enlarge, and one’s own Their quality will be continuously improved, their network will be more extensive, their ability to deal with and solve problems will be greatly strengthened, and the foundation for rapid growth will be mature.
The happiness of the harvest is just around the corner, hard work, positive progress, life value and goals will gradually burst into the brilliant brilliance of success.