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Korean dramas always show the sweet love between young men and sisters. How many people smirk at the screen every day? In fact, in reality, sibling love has also become a major trend in marriage and love.
Some time ago, we started the topic # Sister Brother Love What kind of experience is it? #Some are happy, some have a tragic ending… What kind of story is it? Let’s take a look.
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Well-being
Two years younger than me, but pampered me like a little princess
My first love was a brother two years younger than me, and we’ve been together 7 years and 3 months now /strong>! But my mother was against us being together because she was worried that in life, there are many things that I need to think about and make judgments.
But in the more than 7 years of dating, I didn’t feel that there was an age difference between the two of us and we couldn’t communicate. Most of the time, he was protecting me, taking care of me, and letting me live like a little princess. A happy life does not need to be linked to age, but to whether the other person loves you or not.
Twelve years younger than me and willing to break the world with me
My boyfriend is twelve years younger than me, and I am divorced and have a child.
Although he is younger than me, he is mature and stable, but he is sometimes shy and passive. It has been almost three years since we met, and there have been small awkward moments in the middle, but we will soon reconcile and solve the problem. Generally speaking, we are very sweet and attached to each other now.
Of course, I can also foresee the crisis that will come after us, which will definitely be facing the judgment of the world, but I am not afraid because I have done serious thinking.
Actually, it doesn’t matter whether you are in a relationship with siblings, homosexuality, or heterosexuality, it’s the same thing. What kind of person you fall in love with depends on your personal choice. The most important thing is to learn to grow in love and become a better person. self.
Although younger than me, my male mother
In terms of age, they are siblings, but they are actually male mothers and runaway chickens. If it wasn’t for him “nurturing” me all the way, I might be in my thirties for the nth time. Falling back to the “mother’s circle” that she wanted to break free, she was killed by the strangulation of her mother like a poisonous parasitic vine.
And now, after I finally distanced myself from my family of origin, I have a weak strength to piece together pieces of myself (this may not be achieved by a psychologist alone) of).
Another advantage of the new year is that it is easier to understand the difficulty of marriage, and it is also easier to accept DINK, becauseThe environment in which they grew up is already a period in which access to information is relatively more abundant and convenient, so they are less likely to be influenced by the dross of traditional concepts.
Actually age should not be a hard standard, a person’s maturity is reflected in having relatively stable emotions and solving problems flexibly and softly, which is not necessarily the same as Age is positively correlated. And the older you are, the higher the probability of encountering a high-quality younger brother. Women can also be backward compatible. Let’s all embrace the diversity of this world~
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He calls me Niu, I call him Caoer
He is two years younger than me, but standing together I look at least 5-6 years older than him. His appearance is relatively small. After confirming the relationship, I always feel that I am an old cow eating young grass, so he always calls me Niu Zong, and I call him Cao’er.
Although I am older than him, I may not be as cautious at work, while he is relatively stable. He would tell me that I should never be rational or reasoned in front of him.
Occasionally, when I find my conscience, I ask him not to indulge me too much, but he says that I can be myself. We learn and grow from each other, and we all hope to do it A better self~
My brother who is three years younger than me is physically strong
My boyfriend and I are playing games and I am three years older than him and have been together for over a year.
Sister and brother love is actually the same as an ordinary couple, and there is not much difference in getting along with each other, but the younger brother is indeed not that mature and will be more naive in dealing with things. Besides, it is still very fragrant. He will stick to you, act like a spoiled child, listen to you, and brother’s physical strength is really good ahaha…
He said, “You’re my little cutie”
We met in a friend group, and he has a nice voice and an interesting point of view.
In the beginning, everyone was just chatting as a netizen, chatting and flirting with each other, only to know that the other party was four years younger than me! But he is mature in thought, and there is no generation gap in communication. Even because of the same hobby and the same retro feelings, he can always understand each other’s thoughts in seconds.
After face-to-face, he thought I looked younger than him, so he called me cute and cute all day. Later, I accidentally chatted that when I was a freshman, he seemed to be only the third year of junior high school. I laughed for half an hour, then touched his head with my foot and said, “Brother, my sister will take you to play games, please eat fried chicken. …”
Before he finished speaking, he was knocked against the wall by his backhand and said: “Shut up, you are my cutie!”
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Bad ending
The other parent cannot accept our age difference
It’s really amazing. The suitors I met after work were all three to seven years younger than me… I have also had blind dates, but I found that boys my age or older always bring Following the traditional idea of men being superior to women, they don’t like me being independent, they don’t like me reasoning with them, and they always want to tame me into a docile and obedient little woman.
And boys younger than me know how to respect me, respect me for having my own ideas, never restrain me, and actively discuss issues when they encounter differences, seeking for both sides to accept The solution, in short, I can be myself without any scruples.
But these few sibling relationships did not come to an end, and they were all separated because the parents of the other party could not accept the age difference and strongly opposed it… so sisters Before preparing to start a sibling relationship, it is my most personal experience to consider whether to just enjoy the moment or prepare to go to the end, to find out the attitude of the other’s parents, so as not to waste time.
Playful, bad-tempered
One sentence summary: The younger brother is really fragrant, but the younger brother ≠ the little boy.
When he was chasing me, he was very nice to me, and he acted like a spoiled brat when he disagreed. After falling in love, he is also very clingy. He will accompany me in class, and he is very energetic. When I am with him, I feel like I am eighteen again…
But the little boys love to play, and after the greasy and crooked love period is over, they start to play with their own. Our professional courses are tight, and we want him to learn more. He thinks that I am too lenient; he wants to take him with him in his student work, but he also thinks that I don’t believe in his ability and underestimate him.
Missing each other every now and then, when I ask about it, I just go out with my friends to play / cook / KTV / play games without looking at my phone, I have to tolerate a lot of bad tempers, make a fuss to hurt the max.
Finally broke up, he mentioned, because we all have things to do and it’s not suitable.
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Immature and exhausting
The mother-fetus solo met a younger brother who was very good at playing straight balls. He was obedient and cute. He always praised me in various unexpected ways. Because of his praise, he felt a lot more confident, and finally decided to try Talk about love.
I didn’t expect that after a long time, I found that I was always in love to solve each other’s emotional problems. When there is a problem between two people, I always try to find a way, but he is silent, saying “I will definitely change”, and next time…
Feeling exhausted, I took the initiative to break up, and I don’t plan to fall in love again in the short term.
He’s not ready to marry me
My ex-boyfriend is one year younger than me. He is a very gentle and lovely boy. We have been together for five years, and we have been very happy these five years.
He gave me a lot of surprises, and we really wanted to be together forever, but when it came to getting married, I could feel he wasn’t ready. I also have age anxiety, and I also have anxiety, I don’t want to keep spending time on whether we’re going to get married. I can’t wait for him to be rich and mature to marry him, I also need to realize the value of my life.
Finally, I proposed to break up. Although we also complained about each other after we broke up, in the end, I still want to wish him a happy life and always be happy.
Tell the sisters too, never wait for a boy to mature and never give up on yourself for others.
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Although the story has a perfect ending and a hasty ending, I can feel the sweetness of the love between brothers and sisters from these sharing.
There are reasons for the beginning and end of a relationship, but it cannot be completely attributed to age. Learning to love and grow together is the most important thing.
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