The editor has a friend who is not bad. He is more kind and steadfast, and he does not smoke or drink. But there is a fatal shortcoming that is too willing to do, although not much ability, overtime always remains the first. As long as the task is heavy, he can be seen, and he is indispensable for overtime during the holidays. I once asked him why, and he just said that he was not very talented and just wanted to make some money with his hands.
But it was such a man who was emotionally wounded and betrayed by his wife who had been married to him for nearly 8 years. After he told me about it, I couldn’t believe it, and from the beginning to the end I thought it couldn’t happen to him. But it happened. The key point is that he forgave him, because the child is still young and no one takes care of him, so he can’t live without his mother. Although he apologized, he couldn’t get out of that shadow at all. His wife wrote down all her cheating experiences in a notebook, including the date, where she went, what she ate, and what she bought.
My friend lost nearly 10 pounds because of his wife’s derailment. He almost stayed up all night in the first few days of the derailment. Even if he fell asleep, he would wake up in the middle of the night. During the day, I basically keep an empty stomach. It’s not that I don’t want to eat, but I can’t eat at all, so I drink some water. As a friend, I naturally couldn’t stand it anymore, and I made up my mind to help him recover. I invite him to have breakfast every morning, only porridge and noodles. The first few times he choked up while eating, and his tears were rolling. I asked him to eat for about two weeks, and I was relieved to see that his spirit was slowly recovering, but he told me that he really wanted to get a divorce, but the child was still young.
In this way, he continued to live with his cheating wife, and basically quarreled over those things every once in a while. The friend was worried every day at work, worried that his wife would hurt him again. In order to reassure the friend, his wife also installed positioning software on both mobile phones, so that they could clearly see the whereabouts. But no matter what I do, my friend has always been unable to overcome that hurdle, and he always brings up that incident in every quarrel.
My friend was very optimistic at work and greeted everyone with a smile. Since this incident, my friend seems to have changed. I started smoking during the day and became unhappy. In addition to working hard, I was still working hard, feeling a little depressed and anxious. I also did a lot of ideological work, but it didn’t help much. My friends are really good, and my work unit often helps others. I also hope that he will get out of the haze and cheer up as soon as possible.