A few days ago, I came across a video that was very touching.
Yang Suhui, a cancer-stricken mother who had been searching for her son for nearly 26 years, died of lung cancer on January 23, 2017. When she was seriously ill, she said:
“If I had time, I could take it for the rest of my life. Come find my son.”
Five years later, on March 5 of this year, she The son who was kidnapped for 31 years was found by comparing blood samples.
And this 35-year-old man “Li Ming” from Huizhou, Guangdong, who speaks Hokkien, knows that he is Yang Suhui At that moment, Xu Jianfeng, his son, was astonished:
“Isn’t this the one I contacted many years ago? What kind of fate is this?”
Yang Suhui died a year before, and he wanted to find his mother through the news Yang Suhui’s WeChat was added, but because the photos, birthmarks and other characteristics did not match, the two passed by.
One is looking for his son and the other is looking for his mother, but the mother and son become two parallel lines.
Xu Jianfeng and sister Yang Dan
“Child Lost”
June 1991 The 5th of the month was a day that Yang Suhui, who was 31 years old at the time, could never forget.
4-year-old son Xu Jianfeng was lost.
She is a kindergarten teacher in her hometown of Taizhou, Zhejiang, and her husband Xu Puming works in Guangzhou. She cut her arm, Yang Suhui went to take care of her, and asked her younger brother to send the two children to Guangzhou, where they were reunited with the family.
On that day, Yang Suhui had a bad premonition.
According to her show on Beijing Satellite TV, traffickers abducted her two children that morning. , was discovered by fellow villagers in the car and brought back.
After this incident, the couple started quarreling and decided to bring one each.
Daughter Yang Dan doesn’t like her father, because her father always beats her, so she sticks to her mother, while her son Xu Jianfeng Follow Dad Xu Puming.
Xu Puming took his son to the Nanfang Building, the most prosperous area of Guangzhou, and rested on a row of seats between the stairs.
Xu Jianfeng once recalled this experience on social platforms:
Dad fell asleep at the time, and he couldn’t wake up no matter what he called.
The two young people next to him said to him: “Baby, Daddy is so tired and needs to rest. Your dad asked your uncle to take you to the park, and when we get back, dad will wake up naturally.”
When he was young, he liked to go to the park to play, so he happily said to his sleeping father: “Goodbye, Dad.”
He didn’t expect that this “goodbye” would change the trajectory of his life.
I was dragged away for an unknown time, but I only remember the three of them in a house built by grass and trees. While resting in the room, he was watched by the two of them in turn.
He was then taken to many households, who sometimes called him to laugh, sometimes to jump, sometimes Tell him to strip naked and spin in circles.
He kept asking when he could go home and find his mother, but they were just coaxing, not once take him to find it.
So he ran away, and when he was found, he ran away again.
Xu Jianfeng recalls his abduction experience on social media
Once, he took 300 yuan from an uncle’s wallet and thought: This way he can find his mother for a long, long time.
On the way, he bought steamed buns and snacks. His clothes were so dirty that his feet had blisters. , rummaging through other people’s trash to eat.
Until I entered a small fishing village, I was taken in by my current adoptive mother and became the fifth member of the family. One member, with a new father, mother, brother, and sister.
In the process of finding my son
< p data-track="33">I feel like crazy
On the other side, Yang Suhui pressed her husband Xu Puming with the pain of losing her son, and the husband just cried and said he didn’t know.
Failed to find a child, a few days later, her husband started playing mahjong again, leaving her alone searched, and even persuaded her to give up.
Facing Xu Puming’s attitude, she and her daughter even suspected that it was him Sold my son.
Since then, the two have parted ways and have gone through divorce procedures.
Yang Suhui sent her daughter back to her hometown in Taizhou. She was working in Guangzhou while looking for her son.
In the era of less developed communications, she posted posters looking for children in the most crowded places, such as squares and docks, trying to inquire. The whereabouts of the traffickers.
” I felt like crazy during the search for my son. First few Months, I’m out of my mind…I don’t know what to eat, I don’t know anything.”
She got on a random bus, got to the terminal, and looked out the window frequently. She didn’t know how many buses she took in a day.
She told others over and over how her son lost her son. sprinkle salt on the wound.
But in order for more people to hear, pain must also be spoken.
She then expanded her search to cover the country.
I read newspapers and TV news about children searching for a home every day, and later, I learned to surf the Internet through forums Find the information on the website.
As long as there was a little hope, she would get there as soon as she could.
Once, a message said that in her hometown in Zhejiang, she saw a very sad child. picture.
She came to the village where the child lived, but the whole village did not agree with her seeing the child , more than 20 people chased her and beat her, she ran to the road, the child’s grandfather beat her with a hoe, the child’s aunt pulled her hair, and her face was swelled to the point of being unreasonably swollen, like a swelled steamed bun.
She lay on the ground and felt someone kick her hard, not knowing how many were hitting her .
Even so, she did not give up and “stared” this child for 21 years.
Years of perseverance finally moved the child’s adoptive parents and agreed to conduct DNA comparisons with her.
But this kid is not Xu Jianfeng.
Yang Suhui once again fell into despair.
This experience is only a small part of the media reports, and more of the sadness is known only to her. .
Be beaten, deceived, misunderstood, and have to endure the disappointment of myself and others again and again: There were at least fifty or sixty young people who came to recognize their relatives but returned disappointed.
During this process, she met many people who suffered from the same illness and lost their children, such as Sun Haiyang and Guo Gangtang. .
also helped many children find their parents.
She is happy to help them because she is not alone when she is with them.
But when will my child be found?
Two parents who found their abducted son and daughter came to visit the sick Yang Suhui
Lost son
< span>Also “lost” her daughter
2014, Yang Suhui find outSuffered from right lung adenocarcinoma.
But she was reluctant to stay in the hospital for proper treatment.
One is because “after radiotherapy and chemotherapy, people don’t look like people at all”.
She doesn’t want her son to not recognize her.
was also afraid of receiving treatment, so she had to stay in the hospital and never had a chance to find son.
As a result, the disease was delayed to an advanced stage and the best time for treatment was missed.
Another reason is for my daughter.
“I’m not happy to wear my daughter down again.” p>
Yang Suhui spent almost all her time looking for her son, and became the closest stranger to her daughter Yang Dan in her hometown.
Every time she went home, she avoided Yang Suhui.
If Yang Suhui told her, she would say, “You don’t care about me, don’t tell me Me.”
Actually, Yang Suhui has said tens of thousands of sorry in her heart, but she is always open to her daughter. No mouth.
She thought, when she finds Xu Jianfeng, she will pour out her guilt over the years.
In Yang Dan’s heart, he actually forgave his mother a long time ago.
She believes that if it was her who lost her mother, she would look for it the same way.
The mother and daughter clearly have the same mind, but if they could say it at the time, would they feel less sorry for each other? ?
25 years of maternal love
hit him all at once
There is a connection between obsession and obsession.
One is looking for a mother and the other is looking for a son. Although there is no intersection, they are still accompanied by time and space.
After being taken in by adoptive parents, the two traffickers came to him again and asked him The adoptive parents asked for 10,000 yuan, but the adoptive parents did not give it. Two years later, they came to ask for 6,000 yuan.
Xu Jianfeng then knew that those two people were not uncles, but human traffickers.
Since he was a child, he had been thinking about how to find his mother.
In 2010, he did blood collection, but because the technology was immature, he did not match Yang Suhui. .
2016 was the closest she was to her mother.
He saw the news of Yang Suhui looking for a child, and felt that he was very similar to her, but because he only posted A photo taken from the back, Yang Suhui felt that it did not look like it, so she was excluded.
In addition, Yang Suhui has always remembered that her son had an egg-sized birthmark on his butt, but Xu Jianfeng once had fun when he was a child. , burns that area and the birthmark becomes unrecognizable.
Xu Jianfeng, who is 1.83 meters tall, is also a little skeptical. He is so tall and may not be Yang Suhui and Xu Puming. ‘s son.
Xu Jianfeng (right) and Sun Haiyang
Originally, he planned to do a more accurate DNA match after returning from the sea in those few days, but I don’t know if it was a trick of fate.
The two of them missed the best chance to meet each other.
On the day of Yang Suhui’s death, her daughter Yang Dan posted a circle of friends.
The first person to leave a message was Xu Jianfeng.
It was 3:30 in the middle of the night, Xu Jianfeng woke up as if he had a sense of something, and saw this news , and leave a message below: “Good way, Aunt Yang.”
In the early morning of March 6, he was notified by public security officers, He and Yang Suhui’s blood samples were compared successfully.
Xu Jianfeng had a dream after knowing that his mother was Yang Suhui. He held his mother’s hand and shouted “Mom” over and over again.
He frantically searched the Internet for all videos and news about his mother, and posted pictures of his mother all over the room.
The moment he knew she was his mother, he understood everything about her past experiences.
Now he can finally call “Mom” at Yang Suhui’s grave.
Xu Jianfeng and his sister in front of his mother Yang Suhui’s tomb
Yang Suhui once stood by the Pearl River again and again and asked Jiang: “Where are you son?inside? ”
also used text to write a letter to her little sword
Xiaojian, you brought it to your grandmother’s house in Linhai when you were a child when you were 4 years old, do you remember it?
The grandma’s family has a single family and a yard. There is a mountain behind the house and a river in front.
< span>When you were a child, grandma taught you to read, and you often went to pick grapes and oranges.
p>
Grandma’s family also has a grandson who is about the same age as you. You can play together.
After you were 4 years old, your mother brought you to Guangzhou and rented a bungalow next to a Medicinal herbs shop, often drying herbs in front of the house.
Xiaojian, your sister is married and has a child, you have become an uncle, and your nephew is 4 years old and looks very much like you when you were a child.
Now, her little sword finally has a concrete appearance, and she can hear what her mother said to him.
In the recent live broadcast of Xu Jianfeng, he can be seen continuing his mother’s wish and shouting for more families in search of children.
Comments also contain information about parents looking for their children, describing the time when the child was lost and what it looked like when it was lost.< /p>
This story, as the founder of Baby Home said:
“This is The sadness that is not dared to be played in the movie script. Fate tricks people, punish traffickers severely! ”
May the world be free!< /span>
< /div>
Author: Parent Hall, this article is from Parent Hall. It integrates Chinese and Western, gathers elite parents at home and abroad, and develops an international education vision. span>
From: Reader