My husband and I met through a blind date. The two have been together for more than a year. Because his family was in a hurry, the two of us began to discuss the matter of marriage.
To be honest, my parents are a little dissatisfied with my husband’s family conditions. Both his parents are workers in the factory. Now that he is old, he will be laid off immediately, and he has no savings at home. Not to mention, there is also a younger brother who is studying in college.
But when I look back, I’m not too young, and it’s not easy to meet a good son-in-law. If I don’t agree with this marriage, I’m afraid I want to get married. It will be a few years later, plus I have already identified my husband, and to the point where he will not marry, my parents agreed to marry my husband.
Because of the poor economic conditions of my husband’s family, before we got married, the two of us discussed whether we could save money. All the expenses during the marriage were managed by my parents. All the money collected by the family must go to my family.
This condition is not excessive. The husband and the future mother-in-law agreed to it after hearing it. After all, there are not many weddings that don’t need a betrothal gift. There are also valuable dowries, including houses and cars.
I am the only child in my family, and my parents will naturally make my wedding beautiful. Although they spend a lot of money for my marriage, they feel that all this is a worth it. After the wedding, my parents were afraid that I would be in financial difficulties, so I didn’t have time to save the money, so they put it all in a plastic bag and gave it to me.
Because I was busy just getting married, I put the money in a corner, thinking that I will save it later when I have time. A few days later, when I went to save money, I went to the bank to count it, but I found that the amount of money was half less than that when my parents gave it to me.
This frightened me so much that I hurriedly called my husband home, and I rushed home from the bank. When I got home, I hurriedly asked my husband what was going on. Undisguised, he said to me with reason and reason: “How can you spend the hundreds of thousands of money yourself? Besides, your family can’t spend that much money for banquets, why do you give it all to you, now my brother is reading University, I took half of the money before the family, no matter from which point of view, the money should not belong to your family.”
After learning the whereabouts of the money I was so angry that I couldn’t understand why there were such unreasonable people in this world, why did he not think about it, how much did my family spend for the two of us to get married, and how much did his family spend? As far as the house and car are concerned, my parents spent more than one million yuan, which seems to be well deserved for my husband.
We had a big fight over this, but in the end, my husband was still righteous. At this time, I seem to understand, this kind of man just got married, will he have a good life in the future? Immediately I filed for divorce in a fit of rage and kicked it out.
I think one should be more decisive in being a human being, especially now that I just got married, and I must not let it go. Maybe marrying him, can’t let a man like this ruin his life. Do you think I’m doing it right?
(The picture comes from the Internet)