Slang is an oral language spread among the people. Most of them are aimed at the times at that time. Some are suitable for the present, and some are outdated. Therefore, we must have a correct understanding and understanding of common sayings. Today, let’s share the saying “If you marry a girl, you should marry a girl with small feet, not a girl with high cheekbones.” Let’s take a look at what this saying means? Makes no sense.

“Marry a girl to marry a girl with little feet”

It is timeless for a man to marry a woman to marry The truth is that it is precisely because of the union of men and women that human beings can continue. In the old days, women were not as good as they are now. It can be said that they did not have any autonomy at all, and the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker ended their lives.

Ancient people had strict requirements for women, “the door is not open, the second door is not stepped, the clothes are not exposed, and the smile is not exposed” This is for a lady Require.

I don’t know when, ancient people preferred women’s small feet, thinking that small feet are beautiful. It is said that Emperor Li Yu of the Southern Tang Dynasty had a concubine who performed a “lotus dance”. Before dancing, she used white silk to tie her feet into a crescent shape, like a “three-inch golden lotus”. This kind of dance was liked by Li Yu, and later this behavior was imitated by women in high society.

In the Ming Dynasty, foot binding became popular among women, and foot binding even became a symbol of social status and social status. In short, the small feet of women have become an aesthetic concept of the ancients at that time, so there is a saying that “marry a woman to marry a woman with small feet”.

People often think that women with small feet are the image of the lady in society at that time. In fact, this is not a kind of natural beauty, this is the perception of people in ancient times at that time.

Foot binding to make the feet smaller is the persecution and unfair treatment of a woman in the feudal society. In ancient society, young ladies from wealthy families had their feet bound. After all, they didn’t need to work or walk more, they just stayed at home. However, many women from common households need to work in the fields. They do not bind their feet, which leads to big feet, but they become uneducated people.

It can be seen that there is no sense in “marrying a girl to marry a girl with small feet”. It is purely a partial view that was caused by the footbinding of the society at that time. So, is there any reason to “marry a girl without high cheekbones”? Let’s analyze it:

“Marry a girl without high cheekbones”

The cheekbones are under the eyes The protruding bones of the face, the height of the cheekbones on each person’s face is different, some people are slightly shorter, and some people are higher.

The ancients came to the conclusion that women with high cheekbones tended to be stubborn, aggressive, domineering, and impulsive in doing things because they were too strong and often overwhelmed their husbands. Out of breath, no energy to fight outside, depressed and unhappy. A woman with high cheekbones is thought to be a man who can kill her husband without a knife.

In traditional physiognomy, there is such a saying, a woman with round and fleshy cheekbones is an auspicious face. Coupled with clear eyes and beautiful eyes, then he must be a wealthy person with a good wife and mother, and a prosperous husband. If the cheekbones are too high, protruding and exposed, it is unlucky, and it will restrain her husband, which is to say, it is the life of Kefu.

According to this physiognomy, there are actually many sayings about the cheekbones. For example, if a woman’s cheekbones, forehead and nose are three high, it is the three rights of life. If the face is peach, there will be multiple husbands. People with pointed cheekbones have a strong personality and are stubborn, and their marriage will not be happy. Women have high cheekbones, no meat, small noses, easy to make trouble, most marriages are unhappy and so on.

In the past, people had the idea of ​​”men are superior to women” and believed that women should stay at home and not show their faces. In fact, this is a legacy of superstitious people in feudal society, so there is such a statement.

In short, evaluating a woman with high cheekbones will be related to her stubborn personality. Maybe people in the past have found that women with high cheekbones may indeed have such a character.

Generally speaking, if women have a strong desire to possess and control, this is really a disadvantage. They want to control their men, their family’s economy, and they can’t wait to be themselves. The man worked hard to make a lot of money. If men lack skills and their desires are not satisfied, it will really cause trouble at home and men commit suicide.

If you look at women with such a character now, it is not a bad thing for women to be too strong, because many strong women are not only strong in life, but also very strong in work. strong, so there will be a successful career.

With the development of society, this saying has been gradually abolished by people, because people’s appearance is related to their own genes and parents’ genetics. High and low have nothing to do with character, not to mention the stupid sayings of Kefu in people’s mouths, and now this kind of “judging people by appearance” is no longer popular in society, and the most important thing is inner kindness.

“If you want to marry a girl, you should marry a girl with small feet, not a girl with high cheekbones”, which obviously doesn’t make much sense to our contemporary people. After all, modern people have the perception of modern people.

Fortune-telling, looking at appearances, and divination of a person’s fate with constellations are all partial guesses and ignorance. There is no scientific reason to deceive and judge a person’s character by appearance. If you want to truly understand a person’s character, you can only know it through regular exchanges. As the saying goes, you can see people’s hearts over time. However, common sayings are part of folk culture after all. , so we have to correctly look at and analyze each saying, if the judge has a different point of view, welcome to leave a message in the comment area!