Do you work with your teammates on the road to raising children?
Listen to the story of the @Honey.Fat mom from Lilac Mama Planet.
Since I had a baby, I have witnessed his teammates’ mental journey from “no feeling” to “I think my baby is the cutest”, and also witnessed his change from a person who only takes care of himself and doesn’t care about other things. The person becomes a gentle man who accompanies his wife and children to catch him.
In his consciousness, he always felt that when it came to bringing a baby, he would never satisfy his wife, and would always be picked on by his wife. Do less mistakes, do not do well, when it comes to bringing a baby, I always want to back off, but in my heart and my family, he is already a good father who is careful, patient and capable (more polishing, maybe he will continue to evolve into a super good dad?)
As for taking care of babies, apart from cleaning the toilet, it has always been the work of teammates. We don’t have a clear division of labor. Almost all of them are in the “husband and wife team” mode, but teammates also have his own experience.
Monologue by teammate
Here is his monologue: “The main force in China’s parenting is mothers, and fathers are also indispensable. I think I am a substitute. When my mother has no time to spend with her baby, I It is time to stand up to the top; fill in the blank pages of games that mothers are afraid to play; bravely use force to teach children when they receive an attack command from their mothers.
The general principle is to go first with rituals and then soldiers. On the premise of ensuring safety, you can play whatever you want (this is criticized by mothers for being careless and irresponsible, and I am really wrong).
The rules are to announce the policy first, tell the rules well, and let him play whatever he wants without touching the red line. Once the red line is touched, it is up to me to come forward. After all, my mother wants to keep A good image, you can’t play the bad guy at every turn.
Finally, being a father is very important to do what you say, not only satisfy your wife, but also deter your baby. It can be said to kill two birds with one stone.
Education children can neither have fathers nor mothers (after all, both of them are burning between the boss and the baby, and only one person with the baby will easily suffer from heart disease and high blood pressure. Anger value), husband and wife must work together and unite the front, so that children can develop good study and living habits from an early age. “
Words from Mom
Under my “persecution”, my teammates worked hard and lost seven, eight, or nine hairs, and only then did he express his experience.
But no matter what, he has always tried his best to be a good husband and father, and he has done a really good job.