The whole pregnancy is free from contraception, the whole family takes good care of you, and you go to work very smoothly… Have you ever experienced such a magical pregnancy life?
Let’s hear the story of @yuanzaimama, the mother of Lilac Mama Planet.
Before I got pregnant, I also imagined what it would be like to be pregnant: “I’m definitely going to vomit a lot” “I’m going to get very fat” “Just my weak physique, I guess I can’t even walk”, and so on.
When I was actually pregnant, I was slapped in the face. Unexpectedly, I can still have a fairy-like pregnancy life, especially the first child. If my belly was not bulging day by day, I would not feel like a pregnant woman.
No pregnancy reaction throughout
Because I have been preparing for pregnancy and my period is always accurate, I soon found out that I was pregnant. I thought that I would soon enter the uncomfortable period of morning sickness. I also did a lot of homework on “how to relieve morning sickness”, but I didn’t expect any response at all.
The teammates also said, “You have no reaction at all. I don’t seem to have a chance to do anything for you. You don’t look like a little pregnant woman!”
Well, it really doesn’t look like it.
I was worried at first that it might be because the HCG doubling is not good or the progesterone is insufficient. It turned out that I thought too much, went to the hospital to draw blood, and had a B-ultrasound, and the indicators were very good.
Admit it, it’s the same with a second child.
Not just pregnant
No other responses
I felt that throughout the pregnancy, my belly became bigger, there was no edema throughout the whole process, and my limbs were still so thin. Ah, no, my face is a little rounder.
My colleague said, “If you don’t walk, you can’t tell from the back that you’re a pregnant woman. Look at these hands and feet, what do you look like a pregnant woman?”.
Strictly speaking, there may be a slight edema – I feel the ring on my hand is tight.
However, the day I gave birth, I had stretch marks. Yes, it grows on the day I was born, crying and chirping~
I watch every day and never notice. On the day I gave birth, the doctors and nurses at the hospital were examining me and talking about stretch marks. At first I thought they were talking about someone else, but after listening for a long time, it turned out that it was me.
I looked at the baby after giving birth, and it was really long. There were a few purple-red stretch marks of four or five centimeters, which were distributed on both sides of the lower abdomen, as if it was a cover for this pregnancy experience. chapter.
What I eat is absorbed by the baby
I didn’t eat a lot during my pregnancy, let alone two servings. In addition to increasing milk and fruit every day, eating fish two or three times a week, paying more attention to nutritional balance in the combination of dishes, and eating more regularly, the diet is basically the same as before pregnancy.
The surprise is that the baby’s absorption is just right, although I don’t eat much, but the gestational week has always been large, and the indicators in all aspects are also very good. Although she was born prematurely (34 weeks +), she also weighed 4 pounds and 3 pounds. It was even more exaggerated when the second child was born. The whole pregnancy only gained 12 pounds, and the baby actually weighed 6 pounds.
After giving birth, I quickly regained my pre-pregnancy weight, especially when I had a second child, I regained my weight after coming out of the hospital.
I cook it myself
Although I am lazy, I prefer to eat my own meals. During the whole pregnancy, I was basically in charge of cooking, and occasionally I would hand it over to my teammates when I didn’t want to do it. Washing vegetables and cutting meat is inconvenient in the late pregnancy, so let my teammates wash and cut them, and I will be responsible for cooking.
I feel much better when I eat my own meals. Maybe it was also because I felt that the dishes my teammates were cooking didn’t suit my taste (he was prone to a lot of oil, salt, and paste), so I had to do it myself. I didn’t feel how hard or aggrieved it was, but I found it quite enjoyable.
Work to work
I worked my entire pregnancy, both. The first child was 34 weeks + premature birth, so I don’t need to talk about it; the second child was I just took maternity leave on Friday, but it started on Sunday night, which was very timely, and the maternity leave was not delayed one day.
My job is relatively easy, I work at work, and the workload is not too large, so I didn’t think about quitting my job during pregnancy. Personally, I have things to do every day, and occasionally gossip with my colleagues at work. The days pass quickly and the mood is relatively comfortable. If I was asked to stay at home for several months, I might not be able to accept it. If I didn’t work, I would lose my source of income. Second, the company’s maternity insurance can really save a lot of money for maternity inspections. Third, being bored at home every day is not good. baby development.
Because of my pregnancy, my colleagues at work also take good care of me. I basically don’t have to go out for field work. gas. Once the leader called me to go to her office, I trot a few steps, and even scared her, for fear that I would fall (how can I be so squeamish, I cover my face with my hands).
I also gladly accept their concern and care. Personally, I feel that this kind of care comes from human nature. The pregnancy is only a few months in total, and special care is special care. It is always right to be careful. If you don’t want to hear it or don’t agree with it, just put it in the left ear and put it in the right ear, hahaha~
Write at the end
Pregnancy has never been easy, and compared to many mothers, I have been very lucky. Except for a big belly, there is not much reaction; although there are occasional abnormalities in the obstetric examination, the baby is safe and healthy in the end. I’m especially fortunate that my body is so powerful, which has allowed me to live two fairy-like pregnancies.
Being a mom is a brave thing to do, no matter the circumstances. May you have a happy pregnancy and all your wishes come true.