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youdao is “accidental gain, inevitable loss, let nature take its course, Plain and peaceful.”
Whether accidental or inevitable, they are like a pair of “contradictions”, surrounding on our side. Life is a process in which chance and necessity combine with each other.
To put it bluntly, the so-called contingency and inevitability are nothing but the variables of life and Just a fixed number.
In your opinion, is life a “fixed number”? Or a “variable”?
In this regard, Zeng Guofan said that if a great event is to be accomplished, half of the people seek, and half of the will of God .
Ordinary people want to achieve great things, not only need “man’s plan”, but also “god’s will”. Only the combination of human will and providence can constitute our complete life.
In a nutshell, half the number and half the variable. In this way, our lives will be complete.
To be a person who pays too much attention to “set numbers” will only make oneself negative. And being a person who cares too much about “variables” will become arrogant and vulnerable to the beatings of life.
Actually, it is enough for people to “do their best and obey the destiny”.
You will know sooner or later that, in addition to huge fixed numbers, there will also be these three “variables” in one’s life. Take good care of it.
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In life, there is a “choice” variable.
There is a saying that life is a program, and every choice is like a program Add letter symbols in it until the day the program becomes complete.
Our choices lead to our outcomes.
People choose to study hard or drop out of school during the period from birth to the age of 18 for the college entrance examination. All of this depends on our own desires and pursuits.
After the age of 18, we are all grown ups. Great people can choose to further study, while ordinary people can choose to go out Work. Different choices lead to different careers.
When we reach the age of 30, do we choose to be single, or do we choose to get married and have children? Different choices can have a huge impact on our future.
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< span>Choose all the way, the “right to choose” is all in our hands. While we don’t know what will happen, at least the “variable” of choice is in our hands.
People, if they want to live a better life, they must be “cautious” in every choice . Otherwise, all misfortunes and tragedies will be borne by us.
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In life, there is a “mind” variable.
In your opinion, what is the happiness of human life related to? There is no doubt that it has something to do with our state of mind.
If there is money, then we will live a relatively wealthy life;If there is no money, then We have a good attitude. At least, with a good attitude, everything will go uphill.
The reason why people live unhappily is because we do not choose a good mentality.
Things like mentality cannot be changed by outsiders, and the right to change is in our hands. What kind of state of mind we have, what kind of life will we live.
There is a natural disparity in the material money that people have. And the mentality between people, whether it is good or bad, is actually not much different, and the master who affects it is still our own.
Some people choose to live their lives “miserably” and feel impatient and even negative every day. If you are not happy, it can only be a matter of mentality.
Some people are so greedy that making 100,000 yuan a month is not enough, and they even want to make 1 million yuan, so they are not happy. Then his misfortune is not material misfortune, but mental misfortune.
So the first way to get out of a tragedy is to start with a “mindset”. At least, when you think of a sunny day, thousands of flowers are blooming.
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In this life, there is “virtue” variable.
As the saying goes, “Everything is life, but not a little bit.”
These remarks illustrate the truth that our fortunes are fixed. However, this fixed number is not absolute, but relative.
In this regard, Zeng Guofan said: “Husbands should seek life in death, seek blessing in misfortune; , and the poor write books.”
The only variables that can affect people’s determination are “virtue” .
Why do a lot of people who win the lottery 10 million, and then become poor three years later, can’t hold their money Woolen cloth? In a word, it is because their “virtue” is not enough.
“Book of Changes” said that the terrain is kun, and the gentleman carries things with great virtue.
A great virtue can carry great blessings and wealth. Those who lack virtue, let alone hold huge fortunes, may even have trouble seizing opportunities.
Improving one’s virtue and making it as thick as the earth is an effective way for us to change the future. Just imagine, your virtue is enough to master billions of wealth, then will you still be poor?
Poverty is not only related to ability, but also to virtue. All good luck goes to the virtuous person. This is the foundation of sustainable human development.
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Choices, attitudes and virtues, these three points can change our life. The reason why we are still bound by life is because we have not grasped these three points.
If you choose to be a person at will, without a plan, this will harm yourself; if you have a bad attitude and are too pessimistic, you will also put yourself in a In the midst of pain; lack of virtue in being a human being, and doing all kinds of evil will eventually affect the family for three generations.
You must firmly believe, choose a good attitude, choose good morals, regulate your words and deeds, and calm down the hostility in your heart, even if No matter how bad we are, we can live a stable life without any major accidents.
All variables are in hand. All misfortunes are born of oneself.
Text/Shushan has deer