Be nice to wolves and they may become loyal dogs;
But people are different, and some people will never be familiar with them!
01
Fucking, head pulling, legs folded…
Recently, news about the abuse of under-month infants by a confinement center in a tertiary hospital in Hubei.
It’s not the first time we’ve seen baby abuse at the Confinement Center, but this time I looked at it with a little bit of skepticism.
Why?
After all, the confinement center involved was opened by an authoritative tertiary hospital in the area, so it wouldn’t be child abuse, right?
It wasn’t until later, when I saw a video posted by the child’s family on the Internet, that things were more severe and serious than I thought.
Around the early hours of the morning, the child woke up. As a result, the nurses just grabbed the bottle and fed the child regardless of the situation.
Perhaps the child was not hungry at the time, and naturally did not want to drink. The nurse was in a hurry and removed the pacifier, pinch the child’s nose and poured milk into her mouth.
Forcibly breastfeeding is uncomfortable for anyone, let alone a child. So the child began to cry, and the milk that was poured out also spit out.
In the end, instead of paying attention, the nurse grabbed the child’s head and pressed it frantically, going back and forth several times.
At the end of the feeding, the nurse, for some reason, pushed the baby up from her lap, then folded the baby’s legs in half. Although the surveillance video is not so clear, it can be clearly seen that the child’s left leg has been bent.
There were other staff members in the room throughout. But no matter how much the child cried, these staff members were indifferent, and it seemed that they had become accustomed to this kind of thing.
It is extremely frightening that if this incident hadn’t been exposed this time, how many people would have sent their children over under the name of “the confinement center of the top three hospitals”…
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The hit is on the child, and the pain is on the mother’s heart.
My newborn baby, before I could open my eyes and take a good look at the world, encountered this. As for the perpetrator, he is an authority that he has carefully selected and picked out of countless confinement centers.
This kind of disappointment, loss, grief and helplessness is really unimaginable.
02
Your little one,
It’s just a “vent tool” for others
In November 2021, a family named Tian gave birth to a baby boy in Xi’an.
Because it is an only seedling, the family attaches great importance to the child. As soon as the child came out of the confinement center, they hired a confinement sister-in-law Xiao.
What is big money? When the average salary of the local confinement lady was only 5,000 yuan, the family gave Xiao a monthly salary of 19,000 yuan. The purpose is very simple, that is, I hope Xiao Mou can do his best in taking care of the children.
But this family still underestimated the bottom line and darkness of human nature.
In just a few months since Xiao came to the door, not only did the child not grow up healthily, but instead often cried, and his mental state was very unstable.
The couple was very strange and sent the child to the hospital for examination, where they found old and accumulated injuries on the child.
After viewing the monitoring, they nearly collapsed.
In the surveillance, the confinement sister-in-law Xiao is abusing children in different ways almost every day. From squeezing, shaking, spanking, beating, blowing…
Sometimes even yelled at the children: beat you to death, fall you to death… and so on. There are endless vicious words.
Because the surveillance was reserved for only seven days, within those seven days, Xiao had committed more than 20 abusive behaviors, each time more outrageous.
Like us, the Tian family couldn’t figure it out. They obviously paid enough salary, respected and treated them enough, but they still couldn’t find peace, and even got such a crazy person in exchange. abuse.
What’s more alarming is that this is not the first time, nor will it be the last.
Xiamen, Fujian, a babysitter Wu beat her employer’s daughter several times while taking care of her. In the end, the 9-month-old baby girl was thrown to death;
An 8-month-old baby in Shanxi was repeatedly covered by the nanny while being cared for by the nanny, and was even stuffed into the mouth with a saliva towel by the nanny;
…
Each time the surveillance footage shows us tearing apart.
The painstaking reflections and the tragedies again and again are telling us: No matter how good your heart is, you must add a little edge to your kindness and take precautions before it happens!
03
Beyond anger, what can we do?
Everyone has a seed of evil more or less in their hearts.
It is difficult to judge until evil is revealed. Not all places have cameras either, and we never know what will happen in those unseen places. As parents, what can we do?
Does the child haveDifferent
It is natural for children to be naughty, and it is normal to have bumps and bumps on their bodies. It’s a good idea to check your child for cuts, redness, and bruising every day when you bathe them. If there are scars, be sure to ask why.
This may be a normal part of a child’s fall injury:
These are areas of potential physical punishment and abuse:
Watch your child for unusual emotions
Emotionally fluctuating after being abused, no matter how young, even if a child cannot speak or express. If the child often has nightmares or even howls when sleeping, is always inexplicably afraid, is very resistant to someone, or is conditioned reflex-like fear of certain actions of the parents, it must be paid attention.
Regressive behavior
This is well understood, that is, the behavioral habits are suddenly abnormal or even reversed. For example, a child who did not have separation anxiety suddenly was afraid that his parents would leave, a child who could go to the toilet on his own suddenly often pulled his pants, and a child who was a good sleeper suddenly couldn’t sleep peacefully.
In addition to the abuse of children by babysitters and confinement nanny, many parents also fall into the misunderstanding of “abuse” when they usually take care of their children.
For example, sometimes the child keeps crying, and the parents get into a frenzy, so they shake the child when they are emotionally excited, hoping that the child will fall asleep quickly, or even vent their anger.
However, this behavior can lead to “shaken baby syndrome”. Although this shaking does not cause any external damage, it can easily cause damage to the baby’s brain tissue, or even cerebral hemorrhage. Although there is no beating or scolding the child, it is a very serious form of abuse.
Never do these actions when coaxing a child:
Don’t tip the child up and down
Do not rock the child back and forth
Don’t hold the child upright
Finally, just based on this weak voice calling for severe punishment of the nurses involved, it is hoped that the relevant departments can strengthen the supervision and entry barriers of related industries.