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There is a saying that goes like this, when you are too humble to do anything, you To fully see the truth of this world.
When it’s more powerful, no one cares about what’s going on around them, and no one cares about the nature of the world. People only know that they are very capable and the world is bright.
Reality, really?
A person only loses his ability to judge the real world when he is extremely confident , let them have the idea that they are the center of the world and the master of destiny. This can be said to be a kind of sadness.
Standing in the spotlight, you can’t see the darkness. And standing in the dark, you can understand the most cruel truth in this world. Perhaps, after being humble, we can gradually see through.
Especially when we get older, we cannot keep up with our energy, ability and physical fitness. Worse down. At this time, things of “bullying the soft and fearing the hard” will emerge one after another.
Don’t think that when people are old, they will surely be respected by others,Don’t think that people are old As you get older, you will definitely be taken care of by those around you. The ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, even cruel.
Many times, misfortune will happen in the period of old age, which will leave a deep impression on people for a lifetime.
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66-year-old man laments, old man , unfortunately came.
Since the age of 62, Uncle Chen has been bedridden, unable to move anyway and needs the care of his family. It’s really sad to have to be fed by others even if you eat and drink water.
I just started taking care of Uncle Chen for half a year. My children and wife were still very emotional. Anyway, I helped him with his feces and urine, and he took care of him all the time. He basically didn’t have too many complaints.
However, people always have periods of fatigue. If the fatigue period comes, the deep feeling of disgust and disgust will appear. As a result, family conflicts occurred frequently.
After half a year, the children played football with each other. Either the eldest son said that the younger brother did not fulfill his responsibilities, or the younger daughter said that The two older brothers were too selfish and didn’t know how to think about their parents at all.
In a fit of rage, the eldest son no longer takes care of Uncle Chen.The second son sees his brother quit Well, I don’t do it myself. Even the most filial young daughter still maintains the principle of “it’s none of my business, hang up high”.
Seeing the attitude of the children, even the wife felt bad. However, the children have grown up, can she still change their children’s thoughts? She had no choice but to open one eye and close one eye.
Everyone’s life is still going on, only Uncle Chen is suffering all the time. To put it a bit harsher, people are old, bedridden, unable to move, and the most sinister truth in this world has emerged.
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When people are old and can’t take care of themselves, they can see through this. 4 truths.
Truth 1: Abandonment of families happens all the time.
We always feel that there is a behavior of abandonment in society and the reality of abandonment in the rivers and lakes, that is a very normal thing Son. The relatives in the family are generally very harmonious.
What no one knows is that family “abandonment” is the most terrifying. The more related to you, the more blood relatives, the more they will abandon you when you encounter problems, regardless of family affection.
In the face of difficulties, few people can “get through it together”. And when they are in power, most people like to “enjoy happiness together.” It is the most real human nature to be able to share wealth and honor, but not to share weal and woe.
Truth 2: All family love is defeated by a preoccupied attitude.
Take Uncle Chen’s children as an example, why would they choose not to take care of their father, or even abandon him? Perhaps, it is ‘s caring attitude towards life that destroys the already crumbling family relationship.
The eldest brother feels that he has given too much, the second brother feels that the eldest brother has given so little, and he has to give so much himself, no fair. And my sister thinks, I have already married out, and my brothers don’t take care of my father, so am I going to suffer in vain?
There are too many scruples, making the family affection shallow. There are too many family games that make humanity indifferent.
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Truth #3: The one in bed For a moment, everyone lived in pain.
It is certainly a good thing to be able to jump and jump in old age. On the contrary, once we can’t move, even self-care is a problem, and we need to ask others to take care of us, then we are in a humble position.
I can’t move, I can’t take care of myself, this is the most terrible thing. If the old man does not have enough savings, I believe the rest of his life will be dark.
Life should not be dark. But a life without health and money makes it difficult to see the way forward. Perhaps, to live all the time is to suffer all the time, and there is not much meaning.
Truth 4: If you don’t know how to plan ahead, everyone will be unhappy.
In your opinion, what should we do if we want to have a better old age? The best way is to be prepared when you are still young and strong, plan ahead, and accumulate grains to prevent hunger, so as not to face the crisis of old age when you are old.
Preparing for a rainy day here can be material money, persevering exercise, or even teaching and learning to children. Lead by example. Everything you do is to pave the way for the rest of your life.
It can only be said that every stage of life has its own risks and misfortunes. What we need to do is not to complain, but to light a light for ourselves based on the reality of the long night.
Text/Shushan has deer