Was told to protect the baby at the first pregnancy test? I panic…

Perhaps you encountered abnormal indicators during pregnancy check-up. How did you feel at that time? What efforts and changes have you made since then?

Let’s hear the story of @qiaosiaoqianxi, the mother of Lilac Mother Planet.

Sudden blow

When I was 6 weeks pregnant, I did my first pregnancy test and found that the uterine effusion was about the same size as the gestational sac, and there was no fetal heart bud. The doctor asked my husband and I to discuss whether to return it. To continue to protect the tire. When I was pregnant for the first time, I didn’t have any experience. After seeing other people confirming that I was pregnant, I was happy and the whole family was happy. Why did it make me decide whether to continue the abortion? ? ? I haven’t even begun to experience the joy of being pregnant, and am I going to endure the pain of losing a child? I can not be reconciled!

We asked the doctor about the success rate of preventing miscarriage, she said not necessarily, you can try medicine first. As I walked out of the clinic with the prescription form, my tears couldn’t hold back any longer and flowed out surging. What should I do? This is my first child, are we so unlucky? Are we just passersby? My husband wanted to comfort me by the side, but he didn’t know how to enlighten me, so he just said awkwardly: “Don’t be sad…”

Recover, seek help

After crying for a while, I slowly calmed down. I thought of another doctor recommended by my colleague. Because I didn’t get her number that day, I found another doctor to do it. I want to ask that doctor for help. I walked to the door of the doctor’s office and saw a pregnant woman waiting in line for an obstetric examination. I was the last in line, hoping to be rescued by her. The team moved very slowly, my heart kept beating, I was scared and hopeful…

I was finally lined up, the doctor asked my name, I said I didn’t get your number today, another doctor checked me and said that I was not pregnant and might not be able to keep it… I cried while talking… She comforted me: “It’s okay, it’s okay, don’t cry for now, I’ll add a number to you. Don’t cry, it’s not good for your child, we can discuss anything… …”

Crying is bad for children? ! I immediately held my breath and told the doctor what had happened. I am very fortunate that I have met a good doctor. In her opinion, this is not a serious problem. Take a little medicine and pay attention to your diet. With the development of the fetus, the uterine effusion will be slowly absorbed.

Go home and stay in bed, trying to save the baby

After returning home, I followed the doctor’s instructions: reduce the amount of exercise, stay in bed as much as possible, stay away from electronic products, take medicine on time, and focus on protein intake in my diet: meat, eggs, milk, tofu, all of which are A good source of protein intake. Since then, I have soy milk and eggs for breakfast every day, and I must also have a protein meal with my meals.

Because of the epidemic, I need to work from home. I try to reduce my contact with the computer as much as possible. I will postpone the work that can be postponed. Except for eating and going to the toilet, I lie in bed…

Check again, victory is in sight

When I was 7 weeks pregnant, I went for a re-examination. There was a fetal bud, and the uterine effusion was still there, and it became larger, and the gestational sac also became larger. The doctor told me to continue to protect fetal. When I was 8 weeks pregnant, I went for a re-examination. The fetal heart and fetal buds were all there, the gestational sac was a little bigger, and the fluid accumulation began to shrink.


Now, my child is over one year old, and it has been over a year since the birth. From the discovery of pregnancy, the pregnancy test, to his birth, everything is vividly visible in my mind. , there are some ups and downs, and more is happiness. Thank you for meeting a good doctor who brings hope to my life and brings hope to my family.

Here, what I want to say to all mothers is: If you encounter problems during pregnancy, don’t jump to conclusions, and don’t be overly anxious and nervous. What is absolute, we must strive to be rational and actively seek help. Ask a few more doctors, maybe there will be different answers.

At the same time, the mother’s mood has a huge impact on the baby. As a mother, you must try to stay happy and peaceful.

May every baby be born and grow in love.

Review Specialist Muda

Zhuozheng Medical Obstetrics and Gynecology Doctor / Former Senior Attending Doctor of Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of Peking University People’s Hospital / High Risk Obstetrics Department