When people reach a certain age, they will become more and more calm, as if everything has been pessimistic, basically The top is to have no competition with others, to sit back and enjoy the success, and how to feel comfortable.
Like a spring, rushing out from the mountain stream, going through the gullies, boulders and grasses, messy ravines, sandy beaches, and then into the big rivers and amber oceans , it was silent, calm and unremarkable.
People who enter the quiet period are not without things to do, but start a new life and enter the third important stage of life (the first stage: study, the second stage: work, third stage: freedom). At this time, away from the hustle and bustle, without the pressure of work, the circle of friends suddenly compressed, and the free space suddenly enlarged. At this point, there is bound to be a period of adaptation.
This adaptation period varies greatly from person to person. For example, I used to hold a certain important position, but suddenly the crowd of people around me disappeared, the respectful crowd disappeared, the scene of stacks of documents disappeared, and the phenomenon of one meeting and another meeting also gone. At this time, it will be very difficult for him to adapt, and it will take at least half a year to gradually calm down. The most tragic thing is that there are not a few people who are seriously ill because of this.
The most pitiful thing is that he has already retired, and he is still trying to get a certain unit to re-employ him, taking the salary that he is unwilling to pay from the heart, and the people around him are showing that kind of strangeness. eyes. As a result, suddenly one day people don’t use you anymore. You say that this sense of loss and humiliation is really angry, what’s the point?
But most people are already mentally prepared. In fact, when you are ready, you are calm, when you are calm, you are calm, when you are calm, you are comfortable, when you are comfortable, you are happy, and when you are happy, you are happy.
Look, everyone, is this a very important stage in life? Because it is related to their own later happiness, the answer is yes.
Therefore, I adore this sentence: the rest of your life is expensive, don’t live too tired, Can’t even waste it.