“Your baby looks very smart.”
“Where where”.
Parents who pretend to be humble are actually like this: “Don’t stop and continue to praise, praise something specific.”
As a result, one did not say, the other did not ask, and after smiling and politely farewell, the parents said that this compliment was like scratching the boots, and it was unpleasant.
Actually, it’s not difficult to be strong. According to Xiaonan’s observation, smart babies generally have these commonalities:
1. Super invincible small talker.
A question is asked 18 times over and over, and 18 such questions can be asked in an hour. The old mother’s little knowledge reserve can’t handle it at all, and her heart is a little broken: “How can there be so many ten at such a young age? Ten thousand why?!”
Hehe, do you know how you gave your parents a headache when you were young?
Actually, smart babies are talkative – they have better language skills, a stronger desire to explore, and a certain degree of logical thinking, and know how to take advantage (with the help of parents ability), please be patient and be patient (or “lead the trouble” to Dad).
2. Love to raise the bar.
If you say something, he will say something, but if you say truth, he will pick on… This little bastard is trying to test wildly on the verge of being beaten.
Maybe this explanation will make you feel better: only smart children will raise the bar – with a certain self-awareness and assertiveness, stronger thinking ability and adaptability, and a little understanding of parents’ psychology Internal taste, it is not easy to copy what others say when you grow up. As long as it’s not a principled raise, parents can guide them well.
3. Love to imitate.
He does what you do, what you say he says, and even if you accidentally trip over he will lie on the ground giggling at you on purpose.
Good guy, this observation ability is good – many parents say that when they see their baby imitating, they realize that there are so many things that they have not done well. The child is really the side of the adult. The mirror also really felt the weight of the four words “words and deeds”.
Therefore, the best way is to lead by example, and then you will find that children’s observation ability and cognitive ability are getting better and better, big and small go hand in hand.
4. Watch your words.
You may not be able to see whether you are happy or unhappy, but the child will definitely see it – he acts when you are happy, and he behaves (restrains) a lot when you are unhappy.
You may not be able to define whether your character is strong or weak, whether you have principles or just rambling, but the child will definitely be able to sum it up—whether you can gain an inch, or what aspects you can’t kill, he thinks There are steelyards.
Children who are observant have good observation ability and ability to summarize and summarize. Parents can interact with them more and formulate corresponding family rules (such as what things must not be done, let the child There is a bottom line in what you do.)
5. Laughter
There is obviously no happy event. The child is happy all day long. Although the parents don’t understand it, they are also happy. It’s festive and everyone likes it. It’s better than crying, right?
On the surface, the child is an optimist, but at a deeper level, the child is very smart: because when he laughs, the brain nerves are also positively stimulated, and they also turn quickly, and the child who loves to laugh has a more flexible mind .
6. Good memory
It may be that he can quickly memorize the picture books he has seen, or he may be able to point out the places he has been to. Of course, children have a good memory.
This type of child has strong receptive ability, bright mind, quick reaction and quick absorption, and may be skin-to-skin, but overall they are still gifted.
What parents need to do is to develop good study habits and behavioral habits for them from an early age.
How many children did you have? The next time you praise someone else’s child, you know how to praise the other person’s heart.