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Someone said, “Those who come to you, They will teach you different things.”
In this world, there are no random encounters, only for a reason. embrace. All encounters are either about interests or about feelings. In the final analysis, it is about fate.
Those who are destined to you will come to you unconsciously. And people who have no fate with you, no matter how hard you try, you won’t be able to meet them.
Generally speaking, what we meet is either the villain who impresses us, or the noble person who makes us feel warm . However, whether it is a villain or a noble person, it will have an important impact on our lives.
Some Zen masters said that the people you meet are the arrangement of fate.
For what purpose did fate arrange them to come to us? I think it’s to get our life on the right track. At least, let’s all benefit.
Life is not alone, it is accompanied by someone. The so-called “My Tao is not alone.” Everyone has their own “Dao”, so how can they not meet the noble people in their lives?
You must know that when these nobles come to you, it is the beginning of your “coming through hardships”.
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Competitors of similar ability to you, is your noble.
There is a saying that “If you meet your opponent, you will meet a talented person.” p>
When we play chess, the most hope is to meet an opponent with similar chess skills. A famous general, what he most hopes to meet is a loyal minister and talent similar to himself.
It’s no fun to fight with scumbags, even if we win, it won’t necessarily make any great progress, and it won’t inspire ourselves potential. At the same time, life is uneventful and meaningless.
On the contrary, if you meet an opponent similar to you, you can’t beat him, and he can’t beat you, then you can inspire Do you want to improve your own strength in the game?
Life is like a chessboard, and we are all players who manipulate it. Which step you can take depends not only on your own strength, but also on the strength of the opponent.
Why did Sima Yi sympathize with Zhuge Liang when he met Zhuge Liang, and even felt that he met a confidant? It’s impossible for everyone to be their own. However, to be able to play a game and fight a game is the magnificent pursuit of life.
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to make you miserable and change your destiny The person you walk towards is your noble person.
Saw such a thing.
Xiao Wang and Xiao Li went to the company to work hard. However, because Xiao Li has a backstage, he is pressing Xiao Wang everywhere. In the end, Xiao Li even blocked Xiao Wang’s promotion and forced Xiao Wang to a corner.
Faced with such a situation, Xiao Wang had no choice but to resign resolutely and choose to work in other companies.
Ten years later, Xiao Wang, who was ashamed and brave, is already the regional head of a large company. And Xiao Li, still in the original company, led an iron rice bowl, and lived a small life at the grassroots level.
In your opinion, is it a good thing or a bad thing for Xiao Wang to be excluded or even transferred to other companies?
From the client’s point of view, it must be a bad thing when you are initially excluded and lose hope. Instead, youIt is a good thing to find another way out because “this road is not available”, or even encounter an opportunity and achieve extraordinary achievements.
It can be said that all bad things will turn into good things one day. Know that everything that makes you miserable makes you grow faster.
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The one who pulls you when you’re in trouble , is your noble.
As the saying goes: “The pines and cypresses are known in the cold, and the truth is seen in adversity.”
We only know the value of pines and cypresses when the weather is extremely cold. Only after we have experienced hardships and seen the human heart of the world will we understand the value of “true love”.
Those who see you rich and powerful and want to flatter you or even please you, no matter what they say Good words, how intense the emotion shown, is generally deceptive.
The more hypocritical you are, the closer you are when you have power.
What we need to focus on is not those who come to us when we are in power, but those who come to us when we are in distress. At the moment, the nobles who took the initiative to lend a helping hand.
True love will always be revealed when people are at a low point. Most of the common truths are false. Only the true feelings of adversity are worth cherishing for a lifetime.
So, it is a gift from God to treat the person who pulls us well.
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The one who actively appreciates you is you ‘s nobleman.
There is one type of person in this world that is the hardest to meet, and that is the person who “appreciates us”.
Generally speaking, there are three kinds of people who appreciate us-One is to appreciate Our elders, one is to appreciate our confidant, the other is to appreciate our partner.
The ancients said that there are three happy events in life.When the title of the gold medal list, there are candles in the bridal chamber At night, I met old friends in a foreign land.
Being able to meet people who appreciate us, isn’t that “meeting a stranger in a foreign land”? If we are lucky and meet a lover who appreciates us, isn’t that the combination of “Bridal House Flower Night” and “Meeting Old Knowing in a Foreign Land”?
It is not easy to appreciate someone. Appreciate your looks, appreciate your money, that’s easy to do. Appreciating your soul and the depths of your heart is especially difficult.
It can only be said that it is a predestined fate that allows you and me to meet, you understand my heart, I I also understand your intentions, and I will be with you forever and have a good life.
Text/Shushan has deer