(1) Learn to be silent
Sometimes, you are misunderstood and you don’t want to argue, so you choose to be silent. Not everyone has to know you, so you think
you don’t have to speak to the world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love the most, and you are so sad that you don’t want to argue, so you can only choose to be silent. The whole world may not understand you, but he should understand. If he can’t understand, what else can he say? There are often moments in life when even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be settled. List clearly, there may even be no real right and wrong at all. Then, if you don’t want to talk, don’t talk. When talking is useless, perhaps silence is the best explanation.
(2)At least calm
When you hit the bottom of your life, all the people around you tell you: be strong and be happy. Being strong is absolutely necessary, but being happy? In this case, I’m afraid it’s too embarrassing for you. After all, who can feel happy when their head is broken? But at least it can be calm. Look at this matter calmly, and calmly handle other things that should be dealt with. There is no happiness in tranquility, but no unhappiness either.
(3) Learning to bend over will be an unexpected gain for me
Disagreement of opinions with others and even verbal conflicts, so you are unhappy because you feel It’s everyone else’s malice. Stop holding your breath and go home and wipe the floor. Grab a rag, bend over, get on your knees, and wipe every corner of the floor in front of you back and forth. Then rethink everything you’ve said in that conflict. Now, you find yourself
there’s actually something wrong with you, don’t you? You’re starting to calm down, don’t you? Sometimes you have to learn to bend over because it humbles you. While working your body, you also polish your mind. Also, you have a clean floor. This is your second harvest.
(4) Don’t think if
you said that life is a long road with infinite forks, and you are always making choices. If you just choose to eat fried noodles or fried rice, the impact seems to be small, but what major you choose to study, what job you choose, whether to get married or not, whether you want to have children, each choice has far-reaching consequences, and different choices will inevitably lead to completely different the same life. You also said that the unbearable feeling in life is that there is no chance of life again. If it was what it was before, it will not be what it is now… This kind of muttering full of disappointment, let’s stop talking about it. In fact, there is no real good or bad choice for each fork, as long as you regard life as yourself. A unique creation, you will not look back frequently if you made a different choice at the beginning.
(5) Quietly and quietly return to peace..
There have been For a while, you are in a low mood, and you don’t even bother to open the curtains and look at the sunshine outside the window. So of course you forgot to look at the pot of Margarita on the windowsill that needs water every day. I don’t know how long it has been like this, but one day, you passed the low tide of your mood, and at the same time thought of your Margaret. God, poor flower, is she still alive? You open the curtains tremblingly, but you see her swaggering in the wind, beautiful and beautiful. It turns out that in the past few days, although you forgot to feed her water, God did not forget to bless her with rain and dew. Many things go on quietly out of your sight and quietly arrange themselves. All things are born, and all things are raised by the heavens. In fact, there is no need to worry about everything… All you need to do is to be yourself and leave no regrets… That’s enough.