Marriage and having children are definitely life events, why do I say that? The old people often say that getting married first and then starting a career is unfilial, and having no successor is the greatest. So the premise of these two sentences is to get married and find a wife. Only in this way can a man work harder. After all, there are still people at home waiting for him to support him.
But now the society has changed. Many young people’s idea is to start a career first and then start a family. Some people even don’t want to get married. According to statistics, according to the data of the seventh census of my country’s population in 2020, my country’s total population is more than 1.41 billion, with men accounting for 51.24% and women accounting for 48.76%. There are more than 34 million more men than women.
Originally, the ratio of males to females in my country’s population was seriously imbalanced. What’s more, women don’t want to get married anymore. As a result, more men can’t find wives. If this continues, many men will find no wives. So if you have a girlfriend or a wife, then you should cherish it, or you will be the next single one. Even if they can’t get a wife, there are far more than these reasons, because not only women are unwilling to get married, but there are also many men who feel that they are healthy, tall and good-looking, and they choose to pick them when they are so good. Who knows that a wife is not so easy to find, and I overestimate myself. Facts have proved that a wife is difficult to find.
However, the wife is hard to find, and there are several reasons. Regardless of men or women, there is an idea now, that is singleism, men will become bad once they have money. Of course, this sentence is usually spoken by our women, but it has not really turned bad, I believe everyone knows it. Patriarchs, especially in rural areas, do not know if they feel that their family has a lot of property to inherit, so they must have a boy.
Women’s mate selection standard Now the social conditions are getting better and better, women may not earn less money than men, and men may rely on the money at home and do it wrongly. Women feel that Love is beautiful, but it can’t be done now. A man doesn’t make as much money as a woman, and his economic conditions are not good. Then it’s hard for you to find a wife, especially in rural areas. Many families are poor and have two brothers. It’s too difficult to find a wife. Some people can’t even support themselves. Do you think he can still find a wife?
The state has also given corresponding policies, such as the opening of the two-child and three-child policy, which is to mediate the imbalance between male and female ratios and the issue of bride price. High-priced bride price gifts and vulgar marriage troubles are allowed. In recent years, the state has also strictly controlled the issue of housing prices. When housing prices are no longer a stumbling block for marriage, now marriage has to buy a house in full, so this is also the help given by the state, although The country has done a lot, but the ultimate effort depends on its own. After all, if you don’t work hard, no one can help you. Here I wish those male friends who have not found a partner to get married soon! p>
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