Fighting cancer is a practice full of thorns, but there will always be someone with you

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Photo source:Photo.com I mentioned “breast cancer”, my brain was running fast trying to output some knowledge, but after a long time I found that my mind was as clean as a blank sheet of paper. Since MiaoMiao is still young, the doctor recommended her to place a prosthesis at the same time as the surgical resection when customizing the surgical plan. At the time when I didn’t know much about breast cancer, what the doctor said, brother Lei did. But when he recalled the decision of the surgery afterwards, Brother Lei said: “Surgical removal for a prosthesis, firstly, my lover does not feel missing after surgery, which is conducive to the recovery of mentality; secondly, she If you are still young, you still have to pay attention to some external images, otherwise you will be easily looked down upon by others.”The treatment plan has been determined, and doxorubicin is used for the first 4 chemotherapy Liposome + cyclophosphamide, albumin-paclitaxel for the last 4 chemotherapy, and trastuzumab + pertuzumab dual-target therapy, combined with leuprolide + anastrozole endocrine therapy due to HER2 positive . Since his lover was diagnosed, Brother Lei has been frantically learning about breast cancer, books, guides, popular science articles, and live broadcasts by experts, all of which are charging without landing. His efforts will never be in vain. He has gradually grown from the initial “little white” to the treatment plan given by the doctor, and he can also analyze one, two, and three. Image source: draft design“The doctor’s plan for the targeted drug is HomemadetrastuzumabHanquyou, I learned that it is approved in both China and the EU, and it does not contain preservatives, so I feel at ease when using it. Plus it’s small in size and dosage, it’s very convenient to use right away. I heard that a small dose of 60mg has been launched recently, which is more suitable for lovers.” Brother Lei on the other end of the phone said with some insight. Since you are sick, you should treat it well and use the best treatment. TwoI heard about chemotherapy, my lover MiaoMiao behaved like everyone else Very resistant. On the one hand, Brother Lei chose imported chemotherapy drugs, hoping to reduce the side effects of his lover’s chemotherapy. In the first four courses of treatment, the lover used what is commonly known as “red potion”, which resulted in vomiting and hair loss. “She saw her sparsely falling hair, so she offered to shave it and put on a wig. I feel bad, how can I not feel bad looking at the shaved strands of hair on the ground?” Brother Lei understood that he No matter how distressed it is, MiaoMiao has to overcome this difficulty. However, compared to vomiting and hair loss, the most difficult stage is the fourth and fifth courses of treatment, the alternating process of replacing “red syrup” with “white syrup”. The lover has severe bone marrow suppression, red and white blood cell counts are much lower than normal, and liver function is also abnormal. “Hepatoprotective medicines, white needles… all the adjuvant treatments that should be used, MiaoMiao‘s physical tolerance reaches the minimum threshold, The hospital even issued a notice that she could no longer undergo chemotherapy. Seeing her lying on the hospital bed and suffering, I don’t know how to get through this. Fortunately, everyone came to the hospital to visit MiaoMiao , cheer her up, she survived very well.”pan source: Miyouleige >In addition to the adjuvant treatment given by the hospital, Brother Lei also learned the recipe for whitening from the Internet, and carefully prepared the diet for MiaoMiao during chemotherapy. Not only that, but also searched for Baduanjin videos online, shared with MiaoMiao and supervised her exercise. It’s hard to pass. Under Lei’s continuous guidance, in June, my lover finished 8 chemotherapy treatments. ThreeWhen asked about the best time with his lover, Brother Lei said shyly: “In July 2021, when I know that my daughter will take the test MiaoMiao and I were both very happy when we went to our best high school. This is the result of our joint efforts, and it is also the best moment for me. Who would have guessed that MiaoMiao was diagnosed with breast cancer in December. This year, our little family has experienced great joy and great sorrow.”Breast cancer, falling on the head of every family, is a huge disaster. “When my daughter found out that her mother was sick, she was very sad. She checked the information by herself every day, and gradually learned that the prognosis of breast cancer after standardized treatment is also very good. When it’s good, just put away the dangling heart.”Brother Lei’s family does not live with his parents, and the burden of taking care of his lover falls on Brother Lei himself. “I usually prepare various meals at night after my work is done during the day, and take advantage of my spare time to study information online, and share the optimistic patient cases with miaomiao, so that She has improved her perception of breast cancer.”Talking about economic issues, Brother Lei listed the cost of treatment since he became ill, “The prosthesis is purely self-funded, tens of thousands. We have chemotherapy drugs. I also use imported ones, and it will take at least 5 years for endocrine therapy. It has cost more than 200,000 before and after. But compared to health, it is worth spending more money.”Because there is only one person in one post, it is difficult to replace the job. MiaoMiao returned to work not long after the operation. “She went to work without a long break. Returning to the workplace will help her recover from her illness. Too much free time will easily lead to cranky thinking and increase the psychological burden.”When disaster strikes, only love can be “Noah’s Ark”. Four Anti-cancer is a practice that is covered with thorns. But remember, there will always be someone by your side. It has been more than half a year since the new label of “family members of cancer patients” was put up. Brother Lei proudly shared the awareness that he should have as an anti-cancer family member: “During treatment, my lover received 8 chemotherapy treatments. , no matter how busy I am, I will accompany her from beginning to end; in terms of diet, focus on whitening during chemotherapy; in terms of mentality, share more positive and optimistic stories to make her believe that she can do it; emotionally, husband and wife support each other and stick to common goals .”Photo source: >If you say something to your lover, what will Brother Lei say? “My greatest wish is to hope that my lover will be healthy and safe.”Same wishes. Chinese Valentine’s Day·Story Sharing span> Speak Love

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