After the 3rd pregnancy is open, why can’t I give birth to a child? I’ll tell you the real answer

The current low fertility rate is not one aspect, but a comprehensive problem. For example, with great economic pressure and changes in fertility concepts, people generally only want to live well in the present, who can think about the future in the future! There is also the fact that young people do not want to put too much energy on having children. There is no comparison between having a child now and having a child in the past, both in terms of economy and energy.

In the past, raising children was all that was needed to support them. Now, if you want to raise children, you have to raise them well. Since they are born, I hope that the children can become talents and stand out. But in reality, I don’t have a good life. I want money and no money, I want a house, I can’t see the future and hope, and I don’t have a bright future. Do these young people dare to have children? Let the children suffer along with it? Nowadays, housing prices in both tier 1 cities are generally too expensive, and a house has overwhelmed the life of the average person. Moreover, seeing a doctor is too expensive. If a person stays in the hospital once, a family’s economy will collapse. Just imagine who would dare to have a baby?

The more children you have, the more money you spend, the more energy and pressure, and the harder it is for old age! Everyone has their own family, children, generation gap, work, career, taste, and habits. First of all, they should not suffer more than their brothers and sisters! Secondly, they all want to share more of their family property from the elderly! An old man without savings is like a ball, kicking back and forth! What do you eat when you quit your job to serve your parents? It is impossible to change yourself for the elderly!

Looking at the current social and economic pressure from a macro perspective, many people struggle to give birth to children, Afterwards, they found that they could not afford to raise them, and there were many people who believed that it would be useless to raise them, “because raising children does not prevent old age.” Look at the problem of old-age care in rural areas. Basically, there are 5-6 brothers and sisters. When the old man is sick, the nanny sits in front of the bed, the children should go to work, and the retired should take care of their children. Raising him, in the end, he washed his face with tears, so what else would he do?

And in the past two decades, the pace of social development has become faster and faster, raising children, and getting married as usual It is necessary to pay for the family. In many families, the parents are so exhausted that their children can’t see it at all, and they don’t even think about it. Not to mention retirement for you, a better family, how many of the children’s houses and cars are bought by themselves? All parents work tirelessly. Some buy clothes for their parents. The parents have one or two hundred yuan for each piece of clothing, and the children’s clothing starts at several hundred. I don’t want to cook, I don’t want to buy food, I just want to go out to eat, I spend as much money as I can, and I always say I don’t have any money, and I want to leave my mobile phone 24 hours a day. Can these problems be solved in a short time? Who is tired of such days? Thinking about it carefully, it is very tiring to ride a horse!

The speed of social and economic development has now caused many people to feel extremely unbalanced in their lives, affecting According to the concept of young people having children, only those with strong traditional cultural concepts are willing to have children. They are poor and poor, rich and rich, and the children raised are not necessarily poorer than those of the rich. Children from this familySensible, smart, self-motivated, wholeheartedly for the country, wholeheartedly for the public!

Over the past 100 years, a country has become developed, and a small population is inevitable, whether it is basic clothing, food, housing, transportation and medical treatment. , or just need housing is a big problem for the people at the bottom! But then again, population is my country’s long-term policy in the future. If the country wants to develop, no one will definitely do it. The social environment is a necessary condition for people’s “survival”! If you want to solve the various problems of the moment, you still have to start from the concept of young people, create the environment “conditions” suitable for them to live, organize various “experts” to study, and formulate a long-term plan for social development that is beneficial to the country, balance and harmony. Social “contradictions”! Make people voluntarily and actively support and support the country’s fertility policies!

I think only policies are getting better and better. Solve worries, such as: Can a second child solve a free housing problem for the children? At present, only good policies can allow more young people to give birth willingly and raise them seriously and responsibly! Although the pressure on the country is relatively high, I still hope that there will be more and more good policies to benefit the people! I hope it can be realized sooner, and I wish our motherland people are prosperous and strong, always strong, and getting better and better!

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