2 retirees in their sixties tell you: People don’t realize until old age that the closest person is not their wife

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2 A 60-year-old retiree tells you: It is only in old age that one realizes that the closest person is not his wife. Why is it like this, and what happened to it, let’s take a look.

Uncle Yue, 65 years old

I am 65 years old this year. My wife opened a restaurant. In order to make our restaurant a good one, my wife and I worked hard for more than ten hours every day. The hard work always pays off. Within ten years of opening the store, my wife and I earned a house. Later, my son was going to study in the city, so my wife and I discussed going to the city to buy a house.

At that time, my wife and I had a very good relationship. We always negotiated well when we encountered things, and we communicated calmly when there were conflicts. But after we both retired, my wife went to the park to dance. At first she told me that it was square dancing. I am a relatively stable person and like to play chess with my neighbors in the community. I always thought my wife was doing square dancing for exercise. Body.

Until I thought my neighbors said I saw my wife ballroom dancing with a man in the park, I thought my wife had a secret from me. Later, when I questioned my wife, she only said that she originally danced in square dancing, and she went only after someone invited her to dance ballroom dancing. For the sake of family harmony, I asked my wife not to dance ballroom dancing, and I didn’t ask about it.

My doubts about my wife have not disappeared. I feel that my wife has not been honest with her, and now I have nothing to discuss with her, because people are mutual Yes, at my age, I have experienced some things to realize that the closest person is not my wife.

Master Yan, 67 years old

My wife and I have been married for thirty years. When we were young, we were alumni. At that time, I liked to go to the library to read books. After a long time, I found that there was a girl who often read books. This girl is my wife. The more I looked at my wife, the more I liked her, and then I began to pursue her. After a year, I finally moved her.

We got together after that. We studied together and made progress together. It can be said that this is an unforgettable memory in my life. After graduation, we got married, and my friends said that I had found my true love. After we got married, my wife and I started a food wholesale company together. At the beginning, it was very hard, and I had to stay up all night almost every day.

Our relationship is also getting better and better in the experience. I originally thought that my wife and I could love each other forever. But what happened later changed my mind. Two years ago, my wife often went to a chess and card room to play cards and met a 62-year-old man. From then on, her wife was like an obsession, and she went to the chess and card room every day to play. Later, I found out that my wife was unfaithful to the marriage, but thinking that I was getting older, so I forgave my wife.

But then I still found out that my wife made mistakes again and again, I have lost trust in my husband now, and we started to sleep in separate beds last year. Many people think that in old age, his wife is the closest person to him, but I don’t think so, because there is a gap between my wife and I, and our relationship will not return to the past.


Wife plays an important role in the life of every elderly person in old age. Because when a person reaches old age, no matter how filial your children are, due to work and family reasons, they cannot always be with you. The person who can accompany you at this time is your wife. But every family has a hard-to-read scripture, and not everyone feels that their wife is the closest person to them.

If there is a estrangement between two elderly people, or there is a deep conflict, then in old age, they can only live with a make-believe mentality, which is not related to happiness, or even is walking on the edge of pain. We old people must know how to cherish the people in front of us, do a good job of keeping ourselves clean, keep ourselves safe, and protect our happiness in old age.